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I already know for sure I am bi. I am attracted to 'femme' girls. With guys though, they have to be completely shaved and waxed. Medium length wavy hair and my height or shorter. The only guy I know like this is 13... I am 21. Is it normal that my type is basically prepubescent boys?
That's if you are actually attracted to kids.
I mean an alternative theory is you're attracted to guys who have physically feminine attributes (short stature, less body-hair etc.) and, whilst most prepubescent boys fall into this category, you'd ONLY be attracted to an adult male with these attributes.
It really depends. Are you attracted to the 13 year old you mentioned in your post? Are you attracted to prepubescent boys in general? If the answer is yes, then the paedophile theory is accurate. In which case, you should try avoid indulging this side as it's generally considered morally wrong, as well as illegal.
It's normal to be sexually attracted to guys who fit the description of "completely shaved and waxed. Medium length wavy hair and my height or shorter"
Just because the only person the OP knows who fits this description happens to be 13 doesn't mean she's attracted to prepubescent boys. The amount of 12-15 year olds who can pass for older is astounding (and scary) so his age doesn't mean much. I personally know a guy who fits that description (except the waxing, haven't seen him naked so I have NO idea about that) but he's 20. He gets mistaken for about 16 all the time though (poor guy).
Tasted vary widely, I would have guessed from the description that the OP is into girly looking men as opposed to prepubescent men.
This is from the OP:
"Is it normal that my type is basically prepubescent boys"
She didn't allude to an attraction to children. She said it outright.
Again, here is you
"doesn't mean she's attracted to prepubescent boys."
OP: "my type is basically prepubescent boys"
So now what I am interested in is what you said here:
"Tasted vary widely, I would have guessed from the description that the OP is into girly looking men as opposed to prepubescent men."
I truly want to know how you came away with that, did you just not read it? She genuinely said she was into prepubescent children. Also an extremely effeminate man doesn't look like a kid either, they look like an adult female.
You're correct that some 13 year old could pass for older but why would you assume an exceptional case when the OP said that prepubescent children was their type? Wouldn't it be more normal to assume that someone that stated they were attracted to children was attracted to a 13 year old that looked like a child rather than a 13 year old that looked like an adult?
If someone says: I am sexually attracted to kids and there is this hot 13 year old I know. It's pretty safe to assume that this 13 year old looks like a kid. How in the hell did you assume otherwise, what thought process goes into that?
As long as you don't act on these thoughts, you're not a bad person. For your own sake and for the sake of innocent children whose bodies no one as the right to use for their own pleasure, it would be best to talk to someone professional so you can get to the root of why you feel this and you can move on with your life and be happy.
It's fairly normal. I am a woman and the same way. But I am NOT into pre-pubescent boys. I am only attracted to guys YOUNGER than me, and shorter usually. Aged 15-25 or so.. and they have to be straight, but look boyish (round race, smaller package, shy, etc). Doesn't mean you're a pedo, I am not one either. It's just your type. Don't touch them unless they're 18 though!
It doesn't have to be paedophila. I'm more attracted to guys who're totally shaved but certainly not children; sadly, I wouldn't say it's normal/common, but (as long as it's not an actual attraction to children) I see no problem with it.
Hmm... I know there's a term for guys like this, twinks I think it was, but I'm unsure if that only applies to homosexual men who fit this.