I had a person come on here and complain about how he hates it when people say "just wait" and "someone will come along" but he was right. I haven't been single since I was 14 so I don't know how it feels.
I am 20 and I would say I'm a 6-7/10 and you want to know what I did until I got married this year? I always had no shortage of dates. I think I went through a few month spell after a bad breakup in which I was just dying to get laid, but after that I got into another relationship.
I was always friends with a lot of guys. Just make friends with a lot of guys. Most guys want a girlfriend that they can be comfortable around and make conversation with but they don't know you well enough to judge that unless you're friends with them. So just do that. Make friends with them. A lot of them. Share interests with guys that have the same interests (assuming that your interests don't revolve around fashion, shoes and hollywood bullshit because then the only guys you might get friendship out of will be gay or very odd).
A lot of Men are like hunters in that they will see a woman they like and go after her but a lot of Men really DO want real relationship (but aren't actively pursuing it) and great relationships don't usually just spontaneously start. Go out there, make friends with guys, make friends with their friends and eventually you will find one that you will make a deeper connection with and DO NOT make friends with guys for the sole purpose of getting some dick. Good, cool guys are usually more picky than that.
Is it normal I've never been asked out?
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I had a person come on here and complain about how he hates it when people say "just wait" and "someone will come along" but he was right. I haven't been single since I was 14 so I don't know how it feels.
I am 20 and I would say I'm a 6-7/10 and you want to know what I did until I got married this year? I always had no shortage of dates. I think I went through a few month spell after a bad breakup in which I was just dying to get laid, but after that I got into another relationship.
I was always friends with a lot of guys. Just make friends with a lot of guys. Most guys want a girlfriend that they can be comfortable around and make conversation with but they don't know you well enough to judge that unless you're friends with them. So just do that. Make friends with them. A lot of them. Share interests with guys that have the same interests (assuming that your interests don't revolve around fashion, shoes and hollywood bullshit because then the only guys you might get friendship out of will be gay or very odd).
A lot of Men are like hunters in that they will see a woman they like and go after her but a lot of Men really DO want real relationship (but aren't actively pursuing it) and great relationships don't usually just spontaneously start. Go out there, make friends with guys, make friends with their friends and eventually you will find one that you will make a deeper connection with and DO NOT make friends with guys for the sole purpose of getting some dick. Good, cool guys are usually more picky than that.