I think you've basically answered your own post with the best advice you could give yourself:
"People in general just need to learn to focus on the positives. Anyone can look around and see negatives everywhere, sometimes it takes some effort to look for the beauty in each day. But it's everywhere, you just need to learn to take it with the ugliness around it."
Focus on the positives of IIN and accept the inevitable ugliness with the beauty, then you won't feel so upset or so victimised, and you won't need to post stories like this :)
Funny how that happens. Discussing the issues is a fantastic prompt for figuring shit out on your own XD I think a lot of times all you need is that internal dialouge, that's why talking really helps so much. A little bit of it is venting but I think far more of it is giving you time and focus to work out your own solutions.
And I was partly doing this for others as well, because I know I'm not the only one and some people get picked on way worse than me.
Is it normal I've apparently made some enemies here?
↑ View this comment's parent
← View full post
I think you've basically answered your own post with the best advice you could give yourself:
"People in general just need to learn to focus on the positives. Anyone can look around and see negatives everywhere, sometimes it takes some effort to look for the beauty in each day. But it's everywhere, you just need to learn to take it with the ugliness around it."
Focus on the positives of IIN and accept the inevitable ugliness with the beauty, then you won't feel so upset or so victimised, and you won't need to post stories like this :)
--
shade_ilmaendu
10 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
0
0
Funny how that happens. Discussing the issues is a fantastic prompt for figuring shit out on your own XD I think a lot of times all you need is that internal dialouge, that's why talking really helps so much. A little bit of it is venting but I think far more of it is giving you time and focus to work out your own solutions.
And I was partly doing this for others as well, because I know I'm not the only one and some people get picked on way worse than me.