Anger changes our behaviour,reaction,thinking. you should try to controll yorself...your cats are inocent...don't pour your anger on them...thats not normal.
Agreed. Nothing wrong with admitting you have an anger problem. Try talking to someone. I bet someone hit and/ or overpowered you and that's why you're doing it to your cat. Talk to someone now!
And BTW, once in a blue moon, maybe once every six months, my dog drives me so nuts (barking) and it makes me just want to rip my hair out. When it comes to that, I just put him in his kennel. I suppose I could yell at him or "overpower" him which would feel better for about 5 seconds, but he'd have no idea whatsoever why I was doing it, and I'd feel awful after. Not worth it... scream into a pillow, go for a ride, take a shower, listen to music. When you feel that anger boiling up, just remove yourself from the situation physically or mentally. :)
Is it normal I try to overpower my cats?
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Anger changes our behaviour,reaction,thinking. you should try to controll yorself...your cats are inocent...don't pour your anger on them...thats not normal.
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Agreed. Nothing wrong with admitting you have an anger problem. Try talking to someone. I bet someone hit and/ or overpowered you and that's why you're doing it to your cat. Talk to someone now!
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And BTW, once in a blue moon, maybe once every six months, my dog drives me so nuts (barking) and it makes me just want to rip my hair out. When it comes to that, I just put him in his kennel. I suppose I could yell at him or "overpower" him which would feel better for about 5 seconds, but he'd have no idea whatsoever why I was doing it, and I'd feel awful after. Not worth it... scream into a pillow, go for a ride, take a shower, listen to music. When you feel that anger boiling up, just remove yourself from the situation physically or mentally. :)