You kind of admit that you know it's wrong and you even suggest people call you names. It seems a strange way of going about seeking advice but I'd say the real problem is your loss of control. I don't think anyone on IIN is going to be able to get to the root of that. Have you considered professional help? What you are doing isn't healthy for anyone involved.
I know for a fact I need help but I don't have the means to provide myself some. I believe, by searching this, that its a matter of wanting control over something because subconsciously I feel like I have no control over my life. So I pretty much know what this is I just don't know how to go about it.
I'll be honest, I don't know what to suggest for the best. Are there specific areas of your life you'd like more control over? And are there ways (even though they may be difficult) of getting that control?
There isn't really a way I could take control because it's you know just everything from my parents to school to just life in general. I guess I just have to deal with it.
Well, I hope it begins to get better as your life changes (i.e. finishing school, leaving home, getting a job, all that good stuff). I remember what it was like to feel like you do. Not good.
Is it normal I try to overpower my cats?
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You kind of admit that you know it's wrong and you even suggest people call you names. It seems a strange way of going about seeking advice but I'd say the real problem is your loss of control. I don't think anyone on IIN is going to be able to get to the root of that. Have you considered professional help? What you are doing isn't healthy for anyone involved.
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I know for a fact I need help but I don't have the means to provide myself some. I believe, by searching this, that its a matter of wanting control over something because subconsciously I feel like I have no control over my life. So I pretty much know what this is I just don't know how to go about it.
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I'll be honest, I don't know what to suggest for the best. Are there specific areas of your life you'd like more control over? And are there ways (even though they may be difficult) of getting that control?
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There isn't really a way I could take control because it's you know just everything from my parents to school to just life in general. I guess I just have to deal with it.
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Well, I hope it begins to get better as your life changes (i.e. finishing school, leaving home, getting a job, all that good stuff). I remember what it was like to feel like you do. Not good.