I recently had this same conversation with some girls, (most of them being close friends). They all seemed appalled at the idea of even approaching a guy for a basic chat. The most common reasons were,
- It's unladylike
- That's the guy's job
- What if I'm blown off?
- Where the hell would I start?
I got one thing out of it aside from the usual stereotype. They're scared of the rejection. To the point where some of them would make excuses why it's best not to go on the offensive.
It's understandable though. Plenty guys share the same view. Unfortunately we don't have an option either than to just suck it up and try again till we get it right. They on the other hand have the easy way out and that's what it's about to them. Call it cowardice or playing it safe.
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"Okay so what if you see a really cute guy you could just tell is a keeper? Would you not go hit on him?"
"I would rather jump in gasoline and set it alight a million times than to subject myself to that kind of humiliation."
IIN I think women are sexist for not making sexual advances?
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I recently had this same conversation with some girls, (most of them being close friends). They all seemed appalled at the idea of even approaching a guy for a basic chat. The most common reasons were,
- It's unladylike
- That's the guy's job
- What if I'm blown off?
- Where the hell would I start?
I got one thing out of it aside from the usual stereotype. They're scared of the rejection. To the point where some of them would make excuses why it's best not to go on the offensive.
It's understandable though. Plenty guys share the same view. Unfortunately we don't have an option either than to just suck it up and try again till we get it right. They on the other hand have the easy way out and that's what it's about to them. Call it cowardice or playing it safe.
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"Okay so what if you see a really cute guy you could just tell is a keeper? Would you not go hit on him?"
"I would rather jump in gasoline and set it alight a million times than to subject myself to that kind of humiliation."