Is it normal I think people arent born Gay ?

I agree with this. I think sexuality has a lot of different factors. Also one can never be born gay as you are not born with a sexuality. All the hormones are there but they are rarely ever expressed till later years. I dont think we can look at our children being born and say "Well its a gay one"! and "Well its a straight one". We also have many people who are masochistic which I think can develop from a number of different things. I had a slight idea from a young age what I was going to be into sexually but it was I think partly based on this violent streak I always seemed to have. So not so much which gender I would be into just some of the fetishes I would be into.

I only said it because it's not a thing you can have an "opinion" on, you either learnt and know or you don't know at all. Not really room for opinions when talking about facts. I'm not trying to offend you, it just seems pointless to say something knowing it's not true.