From the sounds of it, they aren't that bothered about you. Maybe they don't like you or find you annoying/boring. I doubt very much they "hate" you.
If this is really getting to you, you could try and socialise more with one or all of them - invite them along to something (night out, cinema, party etc.), or you could cook them a meal. It might be easier to befriend one of your roommates separately, than all at once; if they've formed an exclusive clique, it might be hard to join in when they're all together. Might work, might not.
Alternatively, accept that they're not going to be your friends and think of your relationship with them simply as fellow renters, nothing more. Focus on your existing friendships with people who do actually like you instead :)
Or find somewhere else to live with roommates a little more receptive to you.
Is it normal I think my roommates hate me?
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You know better than us.
From the sounds of it, they aren't that bothered about you. Maybe they don't like you or find you annoying/boring. I doubt very much they "hate" you.
If this is really getting to you, you could try and socialise more with one or all of them - invite them along to something (night out, cinema, party etc.), or you could cook them a meal. It might be easier to befriend one of your roommates separately, than all at once; if they've formed an exclusive clique, it might be hard to join in when they're all together. Might work, might not.
Alternatively, accept that they're not going to be your friends and think of your relationship with them simply as fellow renters, nothing more. Focus on your existing friendships with people who do actually like you instead :)
Or find somewhere else to live with roommates a little more receptive to you.