Is it normal i think my roommates hate me?

I live with five roommates, and for the past week and a half, they've been standoffish toward me.

I keep everything clean, (including cleaning up their messes in the kitchen, living room, etc.), I always pay rent and bills on time, and I try my best to be easygoing, polite, and considerate. I do everything within my power to make sure that I am the best roommate I could ever be.

We are all in our 20s, a couple years out of University, and generally all standard young adults. I really don't know what it is, but I find that I'm often ignored and/or not included in things. Sometimes I feel like I'm a ghost, just floating around, weaving in and out of them while they're talking and hanging out, because I'm generally not a part of whatever they're doing.

Last night, I arrived home and when I went into the living room, everyone just went to bed. They always go to bed later than me, so that doesn't make any sense. Within 3 minutes, I was sitting there alone. It's like the moment I showed up, they all stopped whatever they were doing and hid upstairs.

Is this my problem or their problem? Is it normal? Am I imagining this? What might be causing this issue? Frankly, I'm stumped.

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Comments ( 13 )
  • squeallikeasacofpigs

    Why are you posting this here!? Go ask them!! Man what is wrong with people these days

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  • amaterasu

    You probably don't have a lot in common and they probably get bored around you. You shouldn't take it so seriously, not all people are meant to befriend each other.

    TIP: You don't need to be friends with your roomates. In fact, sometimes it is better when you aren't friends.

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  • I would just move out and live alone in a smaller more affordable place. You you thank yourself in The long run. Fuck roommates seriously. Actually even after you start living with really good friends it starts to make the friendships sour a bit. Who says that you need roommates anyway? Let alone five of them?

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  • A-fattah

    you are not a robot, you have to do only your responsibilities.
    and if you want to do some bonus do it for grateful people.

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  • donosoor

    Just be honest to them, ask them why they're doing this
    if they say something bad about you, you should fix it
    if they just are douchebags, change the place to live

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  • They're being little bitches and isolating you. I would find a new place to live as I would never put up with that bs.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    They probably do you should ask them.

    That probably wont work though because if they do they would lie to you anyway.

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  • disthing

    You know better than us.

    From the sounds of it, they aren't that bothered about you. Maybe they don't like you or find you annoying/boring. I doubt very much they "hate" you.

    If this is really getting to you, you could try and socialise more with one or all of them - invite them along to something (night out, cinema, party etc.), or you could cook them a meal. It might be easier to befriend one of your roommates separately, than all at once; if they've formed an exclusive clique, it might be hard to join in when they're all together. Might work, might not.

    Alternatively, accept that they're not going to be your friends and think of your relationship with them simply as fellow renters, nothing more. Focus on your existing friendships with people who do actually like you instead :)

    Or find somewhere else to live with roommates a little more receptive to you.

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  • hitchman

    When I'm home, my roommate takes the peanut butter and her cat into her room. I can hear her moaning... I'm pretty sure she's masturbating with the cat.

    Lucky cat

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    • disthing

      Pussy on pussy action.

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    • Negima93

      lol That is hilarious

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  • don't clean their mess they dont deserve it

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  • I'm the same way as you.I jusyt say FUCK ME!

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