I don't think it's dumb. I know plenty of young, attractive, date-able (and dating) adults who would prefer to wait until marriage rather than risk losing their virginity (something that they value) only to fight and break-up later. It also helps them to find partners with similar values. If the relationship is good and they are willing to wait until marriage for sex, there's a strong possibility that they will have similar belief systems and morals. It's a useful standard for people who aren't stark, angry horny or are cool with pleasuring themselves
I do think it's dumb to expect people to wait until marriage though.
Is it normal I think it's dumb when people wait till marriage for sex?
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I don't think it's dumb. I know plenty of young, attractive, date-able (and dating) adults who would prefer to wait until marriage rather than risk losing their virginity (something that they value) only to fight and break-up later. It also helps them to find partners with similar values. If the relationship is good and they are willing to wait until marriage for sex, there's a strong possibility that they will have similar belief systems and morals. It's a useful standard for people who aren't stark, angry horny or are cool with pleasuring themselves
I do think it's dumb to expect people to wait until marriage though.