It's a person's life, thus it's there decision on how they want to live it. If a person wants to wait until marriage, then it is his/her choice and you have to respect that. Also, it may not be the 1700s but the morals back then were the morals that shaped society, so it's only natural that some people were brought up to believe that their virginity is a gift and not something that should be easily given away to anyone. From the sound of it, I think the main problem you have is that you hate prudes.
Alright I'll dial it back cause I'll admit that "hate" is pretty strong. But I do think that you dislike prudes. If you disagree with my assumption I'd like to hear why.
I dislike prudes. Also, I don't respect those ridiculous "morals" because I know those who follow all that shit also think higher of themselves for waiting and lack respect for those who don't. Heck there are countries where adultery still gets you stoned or beheaded so I believe we should behead prudes.
I find that offensive. I am not having sex until I am married and I don't think I am any better than anyone else, excluding people who make assumptions about others based on their sexual preferences. I think those people are idiots.
Alright I see you're point. You're saying that prudes tend to look down on most people, because they have morals as opposed to those they criticize. Is that correct?
Practically all of the girls I know are prudes, they don't really look down on anybody, unless you give them a reason. I think its possible that perhaps all of the prudes that you've met in your life just happen to be condescending, which I'll admit that if I dealt with people like that then I would dislike prudes as well. But I don't think it's fair to call everyone with morals condescending, some people truly see each other as equals, regardless in their beliefs. And I've met some of those people, the ones that are highly religious yet non-judgmental, and actually had a pretty good conversation with them.
I will admit that I dislike some of the prudish women that I know only because of the hypocrisy that I've dealt with. But prudes in general, I don't dislike, because it's their belief and their choice on how they want to live their life. I get where you're coming from, but I'm sure you can't dislike all prudes.
I never said people with morals are condescending, that was you.
"I don't respect those ridiculous "morals" because I know those who follow all that shit also think higher of themselves"
All i said was that
"I don't think it's fair to call everyone with morals condescending, some people truly see each other as equals, regardless in their beliefs."
PlainJane further proves my point that there are some people with morals who treat others equally until given a reason not to. Which is what you're doing.
Is it normal I think it's dumb when people wait till marriage for sex?
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It's a person's life, thus it's there decision on how they want to live it. If a person wants to wait until marriage, then it is his/her choice and you have to respect that. Also, it may not be the 1700s but the morals back then were the morals that shaped society, so it's only natural that some people were brought up to believe that their virginity is a gift and not something that should be easily given away to anyone. From the sound of it, I think the main problem you have is that you hate prudes.
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Hate is a bit extreme.
I only hate one person which has nothing to do with this post.
Apart from that, I do not hate anyone.
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Alright I'll dial it back cause I'll admit that "hate" is pretty strong. But I do think that you dislike prudes. If you disagree with my assumption I'd like to hear why.
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I dislike prudes. Also, I don't respect those ridiculous "morals" because I know those who follow all that shit also think higher of themselves for waiting and lack respect for those who don't. Heck there are countries where adultery still gets you stoned or beheaded so I believe we should behead prudes.
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I find that offensive. I am not having sex until I am married and I don't think I am any better than anyone else, excluding people who make assumptions about others based on their sexual preferences. I think those people are idiots.
Alright I see you're point. You're saying that prudes tend to look down on most people, because they have morals as opposed to those they criticize. Is that correct?
Practically all of the girls I know are prudes, they don't really look down on anybody, unless you give them a reason. I think its possible that perhaps all of the prudes that you've met in your life just happen to be condescending, which I'll admit that if I dealt with people like that then I would dislike prudes as well. But I don't think it's fair to call everyone with morals condescending, some people truly see each other as equals, regardless in their beliefs. And I've met some of those people, the ones that are highly religious yet non-judgmental, and actually had a pretty good conversation with them.
I will admit that I dislike some of the prudish women that I know only because of the hypocrisy that I've dealt with. But prudes in general, I don't dislike, because it's their belief and their choice on how they want to live their life. I get where you're coming from, but I'm sure you can't dislike all prudes.
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The fact that you say people with morals is condescending as it implies that having sex before marriage is somehow immoral.
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I never said people with morals are condescending, that was you.
"I don't respect those ridiculous "morals" because I know those who follow all that shit also think higher of themselves"
All i said was that
"I don't think it's fair to call everyone with morals condescending, some people truly see each other as equals, regardless in their beliefs."
PlainJane further proves my point that there are some people with morals who treat others equally until given a reason not to. Which is what you're doing.