It sounds like you are a girl, and another girl ate you out and fingered you, and you're wondering if you can call yourself a virgin?
"Virgin" is largely a social construct, and different people have different opinions of what it means. Some say physically it's a question of whether or not your hymen is intact, but that gets more complicated. There's a good TED Talk about this and some myths about virginity at https://www.ted.com/talks/nina_dolvik_brochmann_and_ellen_stokken_dahl_the_virginity_fraud/transcript?language=en
I personally would say that you could still call yourself a virgin, but it's up to you how you want to describe it. What you absolutely shouldn't feel is guilty! There is far too much guilt and shame around the concept of "virginity". You did nothing wrong and have nothing to feel bad about. You are able to make your own choices about your sexual activity. Do what you will be happy with.
The real question is if you enjoyed it--and you said it was wonderful. So what's the problem? Now decide what you want to do from here. Do you want to keep exploring with your friend? Start a romantic relationship with her?
IIN i think i lost my virginty
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It sounds like you are a girl, and another girl ate you out and fingered you, and you're wondering if you can call yourself a virgin?
"Virgin" is largely a social construct, and different people have different opinions of what it means. Some say physically it's a question of whether or not your hymen is intact, but that gets more complicated. There's a good TED Talk about this and some myths about virginity at https://www.ted.com/talks/nina_dolvik_brochmann_and_ellen_stokken_dahl_the_virginity_fraud/transcript?language=en
I personally would say that you could still call yourself a virgin, but it's up to you how you want to describe it. What you absolutely shouldn't feel is guilty! There is far too much guilt and shame around the concept of "virginity". You did nothing wrong and have nothing to feel bad about. You are able to make your own choices about your sexual activity. Do what you will be happy with.
The real question is if you enjoyed it--and you said it was wonderful. So what's the problem? Now decide what you want to do from here. Do you want to keep exploring with your friend? Start a romantic relationship with her?