Meh, I *guess* it's understandable that it's something you dislike. But it's also perfectly understandable for your husband to keep doing what he's doing, if he's been growing for so long I'd assume he's rather good at it and obviously loves what he's doing.
I would make a suggestion but I suppose it's a little too late since you bought a house... move to a state that allows medical and your husband could become a caretaker for dispensary patients, growing different medicinal strains just for those people.
I actually agree! Obviously from your perspective it simply seems like a very bad and even illegal and kind of dangerous (legally speaking ofcourse) way of life that should be dismissed ASAP.
However, think about your BF who probably not only greatly enjoys his (illegal yet probably profitable) venture. He most likely spent countless hours getting to where he is at this point, this is not easy to just forget about.
It would probably also mean that he would have to get a legitimate job which would most certainly pay far less whilst being far more demanding (I can imagine the drug-dealing/producing business is not really a CV-Building activity).
So even though what he is doing is obviously not a sustainable way of managing his and your life, it probably is something he is attached to in ways that he can't easily dismiss.
yeah ofcourse, I assumed that the guy at least made some profit, how else would he be able to afford to purchase property without any other form of income. If the situation would in fact involve the guy using all his product without realizing any financial gain he would not be anything but a junkie and being involved with him would be a complete fail to begin with.
if this situation involved hard-drugs he would be a junkie, but because it involves weed you consider him a pothead. Fact is that even though a pothead sounds much more acceptable it does make people just as useless. BAM
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Meh, I *guess* it's understandable that it's something you dislike. But it's also perfectly understandable for your husband to keep doing what he's doing, if he's been growing for so long I'd assume he's rather good at it and obviously loves what he's doing.
I would make a suggestion but I suppose it's a little too late since you bought a house... move to a state that allows medical and your husband could become a caretaker for dispensary patients, growing different medicinal strains just for those people.
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I actually agree! Obviously from your perspective it simply seems like a very bad and even illegal and kind of dangerous (legally speaking ofcourse) way of life that should be dismissed ASAP.
However, think about your BF who probably not only greatly enjoys his (illegal yet probably profitable) venture. He most likely spent countless hours getting to where he is at this point, this is not easy to just forget about.
It would probably also mean that he would have to get a legitimate job which would most certainly pay far less whilst being far more demanding (I can imagine the drug-dealing/producing business is not really a CV-Building activity).
So even though what he is doing is obviously not a sustainable way of managing his and your life, it probably is something he is attached to in ways that he can't easily dismiss.
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That is IF he is making money off of out it. Many people who grow and smoke will smoke that profit up.
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yeah ofcourse, I assumed that the guy at least made some profit, how else would he be able to afford to purchase property without any other form of income. If the situation would in fact involve the guy using all his product without realizing any financial gain he would not be anything but a junkie and being involved with him would be a complete fail to begin with.
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Well i wouldn't call him a junkie. Lol. Just a pothead.
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if this situation involved hard-drugs he would be a junkie, but because it involves weed you consider him a pothead. Fact is that even though a pothead sounds much more acceptable it does make people just as useless. BAM
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But not as harmful. BAM...like a meth lab.