I've never cheated, but all the men I've been with have. It would be easy for me to say "all men suck," "all men are worthless," "all men cheat!" but I don't, because I know it's not true. I know this of most of my other female friends, too.
I'm not sure what you mean about Youtube. If you're talking about the undercover "stings" where people are sending someone to seduce their girlfriend to see if she'll cheat, those things are rigged. Some of them are flat out faked. The ones who post the real ones aren't posting the ones where their partners remain faithful. Why? Because it won't attract viewers or good ratings. It's like the news only reporting on bad things, because misery sells.
Real love does exist. I've gotten to that point in my relationship where I can safely say I will never cheat, but that doesn't mean situations and opportunities never happened earlier. Yes, the lust is real, and yes, I've been tempted, but of those times I have immediately severed all connections with the person I have any feelings for, and sat down with my husband and discuss it with him. It's the same thing for him. Complete honestly and constant compromise is what will make a relationship. It brings you so much closer and makes your relationship stronger. That's when you'll stop wanting anyone else. Sure, you'll notice someone is hot, but it won't really matter. You and she won't even care.
But, my favorite celeb crushes? Absolutely not, lol. Alan Rickman and David Bowie have finally hit that age where that would be impossible for me. XD Most of my other crushes are people that my husband are really into, too. I would feel HELLA guilty even just meeting them without him, much less SLEEPING with them!
You asked someone else where to find these girls, and TBH they're all around you. Try not to get into anything with expectations, good or bad. And CERTAINLY don't project your perceptions of your exes/horror story ladies onto her. Hang out somewhere that interests you. Try a game store, or an internet cafe (I see you like Mario!). Try to start a conversation by gently mentioning something you've read or know about the game she's holding, or compliment her gameplay and ask about her strategy. If she's not interested, though, just leave her be. It's not your fault if she's not interested, just as it's not yours when someone doesn't interest you. I promise if you can remain hopeful, sweet, and cheerful, you will find someone. And they will treat you like you always wanted.
Is it normal I think everyone cheats?
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I've never cheated, but all the men I've been with have. It would be easy for me to say "all men suck," "all men are worthless," "all men cheat!" but I don't, because I know it's not true. I know this of most of my other female friends, too.
I'm not sure what you mean about Youtube. If you're talking about the undercover "stings" where people are sending someone to seduce their girlfriend to see if she'll cheat, those things are rigged. Some of them are flat out faked. The ones who post the real ones aren't posting the ones where their partners remain faithful. Why? Because it won't attract viewers or good ratings. It's like the news only reporting on bad things, because misery sells.
Real love does exist. I've gotten to that point in my relationship where I can safely say I will never cheat, but that doesn't mean situations and opportunities never happened earlier. Yes, the lust is real, and yes, I've been tempted, but of those times I have immediately severed all connections with the person I have any feelings for, and sat down with my husband and discuss it with him. It's the same thing for him. Complete honestly and constant compromise is what will make a relationship. It brings you so much closer and makes your relationship stronger. That's when you'll stop wanting anyone else. Sure, you'll notice someone is hot, but it won't really matter. You and she won't even care.
But, my favorite celeb crushes? Absolutely not, lol. Alan Rickman and David Bowie have finally hit that age where that would be impossible for me. XD Most of my other crushes are people that my husband are really into, too. I would feel HELLA guilty even just meeting them without him, much less SLEEPING with them!
You asked someone else where to find these girls, and TBH they're all around you. Try not to get into anything with expectations, good or bad. And CERTAINLY don't project your perceptions of your exes/horror story ladies onto her. Hang out somewhere that interests you. Try a game store, or an internet cafe (I see you like Mario!). Try to start a conversation by gently mentioning something you've read or know about the game she's holding, or compliment her gameplay and ask about her strategy. If she's not interested, though, just leave her be. It's not your fault if she's not interested, just as it's not yours when someone doesn't interest you. I promise if you can remain hopeful, sweet, and cheerful, you will find someone. And they will treat you like you always wanted.