You should afford the same level of trust to them as you think you deserve. Innocent until proven guilty. Being paranoid and convincing yourself that the road your on will only lead to heartbreak is a self-fulfilling prophecy, because you then ruin whatever you chance you had yourself before they get a chance.
From what I can tell, it's fear. You're afraid of taking a leap of faith, afraid of the risk in putting your trust in someone, allowing them the opportunity to hurt you. Whilst you might be protecting yourself from being hurt by them, you are also stopping yourself from potentially loving and being loved, being content with someone.
Is It Normal I Think Every Girl I Like Will Cheat On Me?
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You should afford the same level of trust to them as you think you deserve. Innocent until proven guilty. Being paranoid and convincing yourself that the road your on will only lead to heartbreak is a self-fulfilling prophecy, because you then ruin whatever you chance you had yourself before they get a chance.
From what I can tell, it's fear. You're afraid of taking a leap of faith, afraid of the risk in putting your trust in someone, allowing them the opportunity to hurt you. Whilst you might be protecting yourself from being hurt by them, you are also stopping yourself from potentially loving and being loved, being content with someone.