Is it normal i think all the i'm straight but... posts are ridiculous.

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There is a high amount of questions here regarding "I'm straight but..." topics. If you are attracted to someone of the same sex and/or enjoy giving and/or receiving any type of sexual favors, or jack off to people of your own sex, you are by definition bi or gay. I am not saying there is anything wrong with that and I have several bi and gay friends myself, but this fact seems like it would be common sense. As a straight man I have never wanted to do anything sexual with men nor to I find anything attractive about men nor would I make exceptions if I were desperate. I'm not a homophobe but it seems that lots of people are in denial.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago | pl

    Whats with all these labels.

    Everyone should get naked and have happy time together.

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  • Short4Words
    10 years ago | pl

    It's not an easy thing to accept for some people so they come here.

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  • Sikamikanico
    10 years ago | pl

    Check out the Kinsey scale!

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    10 years ago | pl

    They are just in denial.

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  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago | pl

    I think many men are just horny beasts and if they are surrounded by men, as in the military, in prison, on sailing ships of old, or a ranch, for instance, for an extended period of time, some will take whatever sex they can get. It doesn't mean the they are gay, or even attracted to men, just horny. When women are available again, men are of no interest to them.

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago | pl

      That's just what I don't understand. I've gone years with no sexual contact with women before and never considered doing something with another guy. I feel content with jacking off and don't understand how someone can even be aroused enough to get a boner if they are not attracted to who they are with. If gay sex is more appealing than jacking off then you would have to be gay or bi.

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      • [Old Memory]
        9 years ago | pl

        Sorry gypsysailor, lol just noticed one of your 'its ok to be gay ' examples were sailors on a ship, lol.

        Guess you speak your truth?

        Anyway I'm with bugsforbreakfast on this one.

        I'm a super horny male even more horny than any of my guy friends and my girlfriends tell me I love sex more than any guy they've been with - they often actually think I have a problem and that I'm a sex addict.

        But never have I let any of the gay dudes get on me that try and I've gone considerable lengths of time without fucking a female.

        It's called jacking off and thinking of females.

        I'd probably fuck the ugliest trollish girl before I fucked the hottest best looking guy.

        Pussy, tits, female ass are all so sexy. If she's got an ugly face, just spin her around and it's all good.

        So... nope on the fagstick.

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      • thegypsysailor
        10 years ago | pl

        Not appealing; available. Not all men have the same sex drive; some are truly driven.
        You are most probably normal, while some guys jack off ten times a day. we're all different. I almost always take a woman to sea with me, if possible; I'm not into guys, but I enjoy a lot of sex.
        Also a lot of guys do not need affection to have sex or prostitutes would go broke, right?

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        • [Old Memory]
          10 years ago | pl

          I need physical attraction to have sex, which does exclude most prostitutes, although there are a few hot ones on the internet. I seem to have an average sex drive but I'm also picky and don't mind jacking off. Currently I haven't gotten laid in a year and have no intrest in lowering my standards. I'm also aromantic which can make it difficult to find a sexy woman who wants sex without a relationship. Sex to me is often more trouble than it's worth.

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          • tripw7
            10 years ago | pl

            Agree completely. I don't mind jacking off as well, normally a few times a week. (I want to keep my capability to have sex with my wife) I really enjoy sites that depict what I like.

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    • tripw7
      10 years ago | pl

      Very good example of the way it is or may be for a lot of people.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago | pl

    I agree. Maybe they meant they think they are mostly straight.

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  • davesumba
    10 years ago | pl

    You igna'nt. There aren't any i'm straight but i'm attracted to the same sex posts. There's some I'm straight, but can still appreciate the beauty of a man posts. There's the i'm straight but like to fuck guys posts. There's the I'm straight, but like my ass penetrated posts. But no one ever tries to say they are straight, yet still attracted to men, which is the only thing that makes you gay/bi. Fucking men does not make you gay, having a sexual preference for them does.
    The more you know.

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago | pl

      "Fucking men does not make you gay"

      *smirks

      I disagree, I think it's fairly gay.

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    • quentari
      10 years ago | pl

      I agree with you, although I don't see why you would have sex with anyone of a gender you weren't attracted to personally :P Those posts I don't get.

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      • davesumba
        10 years ago | pl

        Men can be aroused by the act of sex and not be in the least bit attracted to what they are fucking. Personally, if its late at night and i'm drunk and high and horny, a tight hole is just an email away. But personally, I have to close my eyes and get a very very clear picture of a girl to be able to get aroused and off.

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        • quentari
          10 years ago | pl

          heteroflexible? heteronvmsolongasitsahole? :P

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        • [Old Memory]
          10 years ago | pl

          That may be for some men but personally sex does nothing for me if I'm not attracted to who I'm with. I would rather just jack off in that case and wouldn't even be able to get a boner. I think I might be more picky than most people though and also get turned off easily.

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  • hi5ingamillionangels
    10 years ago | pl

    I don't think it's ok how dismissive people are of questions that start with "I'm straight but..."

    They are posting because they are confused about their sexuality. They don't need to be greeted with angry messages.

    People come here to have their specific situations addressed. Maybe listen to them? Or just don't comment.

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago | pl

      I'm not angry, it just doesn't make sense to me.

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  • tripw7
    10 years ago | pl

    I would say that you are very normal. I have never been with a guy sexually. However, living away from my wife for years at a time. (Even going home every few weeks) I enjoy looking at guys, especially if they are really attractive and are well endowed.

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  • TheeDreamer
    10 years ago | pl

    ^^people need some vasaline; they are getting butt hurt ;) haha.
    But yeah, you are not alone. I think those posts are odd.

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  • filiasan
    10 years ago | pl

    It's the heterosexuality conspiracy :P
    But seriously, it's easier to be accepted if you're "normal". In this world, straight is normal.

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  • gummy_jr
    10 years ago | pl

    I don't know... I'm straight but...

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