Is it normal i stop liking a guy i really liked once he likes me back

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I really liked this guy for a while. He's so perfect and sweet and I always wanted him. We finally started talking this week and I am loosing my feelings for him. Why is this?

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  • WhiteStallion
    8 years ago | pl

    You miss him playing hard to get, like the challenge is over. I would feel relief at this but seems like you just lose interest. You should realize love isn't a game because real people are involved.

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    • kupokupo
      8 years ago | pl

      I agree with this. It seems OP is only interested in getting his attention to satisfy her own ego, and now that she has it, she's lost interest.

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      • lonely_guy
        8 years ago | pl

        Or he isn't that good as she thought? Or she imagined him too unrealistically so he doesn't fit in that "perfect" image.

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        • kupokupo
          8 years ago | pl

          That's perfectly plausible actually. Sorry for looking at it so narrow-mindedly. I took the OP calling him "perfect and sweet" to mean that she had some kind of prior knowledge about him.

          Although she does say they only started talking this week so perhaps he's not as interesting as she had thought.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago | pl

    Fear of intimacy, fear of commitment and low self esteem.

    *puffs on cigar and strokes fake beard*

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