I know a lot of single people who date, or even don't date at all, and have other people make them feel there is something wrong with being alone, and then they start thinking (while they are happily living their single lives) they need a relationship just because society thinks you need a relationship. You can be happy either being single or in a relationship. You don't NEED either one, but you've got to WANT ONE OR THE OTHER. You either WANT a relationship or you DON'T WANT a relationship. You do not want a relationship if you want to date a lot of people. A relationship means committment and responsibility towards ONE person. Therefore be honest with yourself and the people you date from the get go because you can only have 1)dating a lot of people or 2)being in a relationship with one person. Pick one and own how you feel and don't let your parents or anybody else tell you its wrong however you choose to live your life. Nothing wrong with dating a lot of people, and there is nothing wrong with being in a relationship. YOU have to decide, at least for now, which one is the right thing for now. You may change your mind either way in the future. But bottom line is you can't have both at the same time.
Is it normal I still don't want to settle down
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I know a lot of single people who date, or even don't date at all, and have other people make them feel there is something wrong with being alone, and then they start thinking (while they are happily living their single lives) they need a relationship just because society thinks you need a relationship. You can be happy either being single or in a relationship. You don't NEED either one, but you've got to WANT ONE OR THE OTHER. You either WANT a relationship or you DON'T WANT a relationship. You do not want a relationship if you want to date a lot of people. A relationship means committment and responsibility towards ONE person. Therefore be honest with yourself and the people you date from the get go because you can only have 1)dating a lot of people or 2)being in a relationship with one person. Pick one and own how you feel and don't let your parents or anybody else tell you its wrong however you choose to live your life. Nothing wrong with dating a lot of people, and there is nothing wrong with being in a relationship. YOU have to decide, at least for now, which one is the right thing for now. You may change your mind either way in the future. But bottom line is you can't have both at the same time.