Is it normal i stalk people on facebook

So I'm looking for love, I'm 23 and I've never had a boyfriend... the thing is I have tried with guys but it's never gone anywhere. I'm really bad with people I'm shy quiet and have no confidence and I don't know how to be myself around anyone except close friends and family because I'm worried what they will think.
In social situations I often have to think what I need to say or I won't talk at all. Making friends is hard, large groups are hard but I keep pushing myself to try.
I joined the gym once and got talking to some people one on one and it was nice and if I could just make friends from that it would be great but I've no idea how...
Anyway the main reason for this post is about a guy.. I joined a dating website and have been looking for people suitable for me. It never turns out right.. I don't go to places to meet new people really. And even if I did like I said I'd be shit at it.
So the guy I'm kinda obsessing over isn't from the dating website. He's a guy who comes to my workplace to fix something when it's broke. He doesn't come often I mean the time scale can be anytime, every 6 months then it could be twice a week.
He's been coming for around 3 years, when my dad would speak to him I'd be there thought nothing of him at all. The last few times though I've started to feel something I don't know what though.
I'd make a joke one time when he come and tried to make the effort to talk to him. He came the other day but I looked at him from a far.. he came again on Monday I was going to avoid him but my dad wanted me to go and pay him.. so I went he asked me a few general questions I answered but I could've answered more . I was just in aww that he was actually talking to me. No one ever takes there time out to get to know me ever. And it was so nice.. I feel like I'm making a friend and even though I fancy the pants off him I really want this friend! But how do I go about it now, he has Facebook as I've searched him but if I add him he will know I've been looking. Or should I wait til he next comes and talk to him, figure out what to say and try and make a conversation.
Or should I do both? I'm so looking forward to him coming. I don't know what's wrong with me.
It's just no one ever really gets to know me, I don't have many friends, I don't open up much but I want to learn, I want to with him.
Help!

Wait until you next see him 2
Add him on Facebook 2
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  • HarryPotter17

    I'd say add him to Facebook and then when you see him again, then just start talking to him and say something like " yeah, so I saw you have Facebook" and just laugh about it. Then he wouldn't be under the impression that you went looking for him and he would realize it's a chilled situation and then you just thing from there.

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