Don't listen to this bullshit that you have to forgive people that hurt you...no you don't ...what I hope you would do is process the experience in a way that first of all helps you develop those skills that prevent future abuse...and realize that you are not at fault for causing the abuse...forgive yourself....
IIN I remember being spanked as a child , and it still bothers me?
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Don't listen to this bullshit that you have to forgive people that hurt you...no you don't ...what I hope you would do is process the experience in a way that first of all helps you develop those skills that prevent future abuse...and realize that you are not at fault for causing the abuse...forgive yourself....