It's normal to still feel bad about it if it really bothered you at the time. Maybe you should ask him about it. It could have just been a misunderstanding. It's possible your father thought you had done something bad when you actually hadn't, or maybe you did and didn't realize it. Honestly it depends on what type of father he was the rest of the time. If he was a good father and this was the only bad thing then maybe it could be explained through a discussion. In that case it would be a shame to resent your father for the rest of your life.
IIN I remember being spanked as a child , and it still bothers me?
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It's normal to still feel bad about it if it really bothered you at the time. Maybe you should ask him about it. It could have just been a misunderstanding. It's possible your father thought you had done something bad when you actually hadn't, or maybe you did and didn't realize it. Honestly it depends on what type of father he was the rest of the time. If he was a good father and this was the only bad thing then maybe it could be explained through a discussion. In that case it would be a shame to resent your father for the rest of your life.