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This really hot guy rubbed my ankle under the desk. I was really supprised because im 40 pounds over weight and ugle i rejected playing footsie i cant stand the thought with flirting with a really hot guy...... I have no idea why but i have no interest in him is this normal?
Based on what you wrote about how you feel about your appearance, I think you just let your insecurities get in the way of you actually feeling something for him..probably to avoid getting hurt or something but seriously you need to work on your insecurity level otherwise you're never going to feel comfortable enough to flirt with a cute guy. It's like you'll feel like you're not good enough for him or you don't deserve him..and if he's flirting with you then hey maybe it's because he sees what you refuse to see in you.
Maybe he had a fat fetish. Some guys love big girls you know. And on the other hand, you may be a very beautiful person, regardless of being a bit chubby. The face is the most important. But yeah, normal enough. I reject most guys flirtations...because I just think "Will this go anywhere? Well then, why bother?"
Really can't understand your question..it sound like you are saying..Am I normal to not be interested in someone who is hot..which also is contradictory because if you are not interested in them then how are they hot to you?
So, it is absolutely normal to not want to flirt with someone we are not attracted to...now is it normal to not want to flirt with someone we are attracted too..uh, maybe if you are shy or questions their motives, etc...