Is it normal i push people away?

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Whenever I get close to someone and they now personal things about me or they start to get personal, I push them away? Like today, I had known for awhile this guy liked me, and even though I didn't like him, I wanted to be friends. But we've been talking and tonight he said goodnight sweet dreams and now I dint wanna talk to him? Its this way with friends too. I hate it. Is it normal?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    Don't worry Hun. I don't let anyone in. I guess it's the only way to not get hurt.

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  • russellnb
    8 years ago | pl

    I think you do not want to be hurt. Perhaps you could set boundaries let a guy know what you want and what you do not.

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  • Ugh69
    10 years ago | pl

    Push me, and I'll sock you in the face.

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  • User666
    10 years ago | pl

    It's completely normal to push people away. The reasons may vary, but sometimes its perfectly fine. It might help to ask yourself why you do that, and if you actually want people in your life but are too afraid, etc. If you find the answer, and if you're ok with it, you won't worry about it.

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  • lc1988
    12 years ago | pl

    Keep the wall up! Once its down, its harder to build it back up.

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  • AngAnders112
    12 years ago | pl

    You just have a good defense mechanism. People will only eff you over and let you down. You're doing the right thing. Trust no one but You.

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  • Sweetz
    12 years ago | pl

    Same here

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  • AmvEditor
    12 years ago | pl

    Lol thats gay. I mean homosexual....

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