That's not true- where you said "Hot girls and even average girls get offers of sex for free by the dozen." Most guys are not attractive. They expect girls to be attractive, but they don't try to be attractive for girls.
If you're a girl, you may have dozens of guys who would sleep with you--- but they're all ugly. There are not enough single, goodlooking guys- for a girl to find someone she is attracted to very easily. Maybe her friend was attractive, and that's why she used him as a shortcut?
First of all, I don't know if you are a guy or a girl but let me tell you. Almost all men want to look good. Because if you do you get a shot at the ladies. I don't know where you are from, where guys just walk around with their hair and beard on ther knees but every guy that I have ever seen at least did something to look more attractive to girls. Next. Ofcourse they expect girls to be attractive. the same as that girls expect men to be attractive, the first thing you do when you see a new person is decide if he or she is good-looking. even if its sub-concious. But yes, maybe I was overstating the average amount of men that flock around girls every day. But its human nature to want to have sex. There are no shortcuts because as a girl getting a guy to sleep with you is easy as cake. But ofcourse you have to be attractive because thats just how the game is played.
I think this is just about her being afraid of being rejected so she took a safe bet and she payed a good friend to do it. Either that or she is too afraid to go on the hunt
I guess I don't know your gender/sexual orientation either, or whether you're attracted to men. But I disagree-
if guys really were trying to be attractive, then they wouldn't shave their heads, or wear baseball caps, or grow big fuzzy beards. I'm a girl, since you asked. Mostly, all guys have to do, to be attractive, is grow their hair out a few inches- instead of keeping a close crew cut. I'm not trying to be snooty on purpose- but I've found that guys who have hair is the only thing I'm attracted to (I can't help it). But I rarely ever see a guy with more than a crew cut. I've gone out looking, a lot. I've suggested to guys that they should grow their hair out. They usually don't want to. So I'm speaking from experience- that it does not seem like guys are willing to be attractive for girls. For me, being a girl and wanting to date a guy I'm actually attracted to-- is very very difficult.
Some girls do like short-haired, plain looking guys-- but that doesn't mean all of us do...
I guess it's pointless of me to post on this topic though- I don't really care that she paid for sex, or why. It sounds like both her and her friend got something they wanted from it...
You just said it yourself, I admit that there are some less than beautiful men but to women that is all the same. I have seen plenty of girls and guys who just don't give a F*** about what they look like. Which is fine I suppose as long as they dont start complaining about the fact that people don't think they are beautiful. But further on to your comment, what you said just plain contradicts itself. You arent talking about guys not trying to be attracted to girls, you are annoyed by guys who don't try to be attractive to you.
(I am a guy btw since you told me your gender too)
By the way I could not care less about how men dress and stuff I am just keeping this going for the sake of argument, nor do I really care what the girl who asks this question does. Its her money and her body I guess. Who are we to judge.
Anyway it was fun arguing with you. But lets stop making this girl's question about us haha.
Is it normal I paid to have sex
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That's not true- where you said "Hot girls and even average girls get offers of sex for free by the dozen." Most guys are not attractive. They expect girls to be attractive, but they don't try to be attractive for girls.
If you're a girl, you may have dozens of guys who would sleep with you--- but they're all ugly. There are not enough single, goodlooking guys- for a girl to find someone she is attracted to very easily. Maybe her friend was attractive, and that's why she used him as a shortcut?
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First of all, I don't know if you are a guy or a girl but let me tell you. Almost all men want to look good. Because if you do you get a shot at the ladies. I don't know where you are from, where guys just walk around with their hair and beard on ther knees but every guy that I have ever seen at least did something to look more attractive to girls. Next. Ofcourse they expect girls to be attractive. the same as that girls expect men to be attractive, the first thing you do when you see a new person is decide if he or she is good-looking. even if its sub-concious. But yes, maybe I was overstating the average amount of men that flock around girls every day. But its human nature to want to have sex. There are no shortcuts because as a girl getting a guy to sleep with you is easy as cake. But ofcourse you have to be attractive because thats just how the game is played.
I think this is just about her being afraid of being rejected so she took a safe bet and she payed a good friend to do it. Either that or she is too afraid to go on the hunt
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I guess I don't know your gender/sexual orientation either, or whether you're attracted to men. But I disagree-
if guys really were trying to be attractive, then they wouldn't shave their heads, or wear baseball caps, or grow big fuzzy beards. I'm a girl, since you asked. Mostly, all guys have to do, to be attractive, is grow their hair out a few inches- instead of keeping a close crew cut. I'm not trying to be snooty on purpose- but I've found that guys who have hair is the only thing I'm attracted to (I can't help it). But I rarely ever see a guy with more than a crew cut. I've gone out looking, a lot. I've suggested to guys that they should grow their hair out. They usually don't want to. So I'm speaking from experience- that it does not seem like guys are willing to be attractive for girls. For me, being a girl and wanting to date a guy I'm actually attracted to-- is very very difficult.
Some girls do like short-haired, plain looking guys-- but that doesn't mean all of us do...
I guess it's pointless of me to post on this topic though- I don't really care that she paid for sex, or why. It sounds like both her and her friend got something they wanted from it...
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You just said it yourself, I admit that there are some less than beautiful men but to women that is all the same. I have seen plenty of girls and guys who just don't give a F*** about what they look like. Which is fine I suppose as long as they dont start complaining about the fact that people don't think they are beautiful. But further on to your comment, what you said just plain contradicts itself. You arent talking about guys not trying to be attracted to girls, you are annoyed by guys who don't try to be attractive to you.
(I am a guy btw since you told me your gender too)
By the way I could not care less about how men dress and stuff I am just keeping this going for the sake of argument, nor do I really care what the girl who asks this question does. Its her money and her body I guess. Who are we to judge.
Anyway it was fun arguing with you. But lets stop making this girl's question about us haha.