Take a break from dating; start working on yourself. Whatever you've been doing so far hasn't worked so it's time to learn some new tools and behaviors. You can see a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist to help you explore your personal and family of origin issues. Also checkout these two twelve step groups http://www.coda.org/ http://www.coda.org/ http://www.slaafws.org/meetings
If you continue to do what you've been doing you will continue to get what you've been getting.
this is interesting advice. are you like that? i mean, are you speaking from experience? i answered yes to 24 of the 40 questions in the self diagnosis test and would have answered yes to more of them a while ago. i've gotten better, i have been working on myself and staying away from relationships but every now and then a man gets interested in me and it turns out he's one of those types i mentioned in the post. sometimes i let myself get involved due to , idk, loneliness maybe? or hope that 'this time it will work'? i'm trying to change and have been successful, my main frustration and concern is that despite all that i keep finding those guys, or they keep finding me. i feel i'm ready for a new healthy relationship but i just don't have anyone to have it with
Is it normal i only get piece of crap, crazy men?
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Take a break from dating; start working on yourself. Whatever you've been doing so far hasn't worked so it's time to learn some new tools and behaviors. You can see a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist to help you explore your personal and family of origin issues. Also checkout these two twelve step groups http://www.coda.org/ http://www.coda.org/ http://www.slaafws.org/meetings
If you continue to do what you've been doing you will continue to get what you've been getting.
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this is interesting advice. are you like that? i mean, are you speaking from experience? i answered yes to 24 of the 40 questions in the self diagnosis test and would have answered yes to more of them a while ago. i've gotten better, i have been working on myself and staying away from relationships but every now and then a man gets interested in me and it turns out he's one of those types i mentioned in the post. sometimes i let myself get involved due to , idk, loneliness maybe? or hope that 'this time it will work'? i'm trying to change and have been successful, my main frustration and concern is that despite all that i keep finding those guys, or they keep finding me. i feel i'm ready for a new healthy relationship but i just don't have anyone to have it with