Research has found that something like 75% of women don't get enough stimulation from vaginal thrusting - by penis, fingers, or any other object - to reach orgasm. Some women really enjoy vaginal stimulation, and that's normal for them. But for most women, the clitoris is what it's all about, and the position of their clitoris relative to their vaginal opening is such that movement of an object in and out of their vagina doesn't stimulate their clitoris very much.
Putting fingers or other (smooth, clean) objects in your vagina is a good way to become familiar with the sensations of penetrative sex, and many women include at least some penetration in their masturbation because it helps with their sexual fantasies, but some women never penetrate themselves when masturbating. Both are perfectly fine; it's your body, and you have to figure out what works for you.
I suggest you Google Betty Dodson and check out her website which is all about female masturbation.
Is it normal I never fingered myself?
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Research has found that something like 75% of women don't get enough stimulation from vaginal thrusting - by penis, fingers, or any other object - to reach orgasm. Some women really enjoy vaginal stimulation, and that's normal for them. But for most women, the clitoris is what it's all about, and the position of their clitoris relative to their vaginal opening is such that movement of an object in and out of their vagina doesn't stimulate their clitoris very much.
Putting fingers or other (smooth, clean) objects in your vagina is a good way to become familiar with the sensations of penetrative sex, and many women include at least some penetration in their masturbation because it helps with their sexual fantasies, but some women never penetrate themselves when masturbating. Both are perfectly fine; it's your body, and you have to figure out what works for you.
I suggest you Google Betty Dodson and check out her website which is all about female masturbation.