Is it normal i miss him?

Right, I met this guy who was the same age as me, we talked normally for about 2 months then he asked me out, i said yeah.. When we talked i felt so happy, he called me beautiful, gorgeous, amazing etc. And one day he actually talked about the future, he said one day he's gonna marry me and we're gonna live together until we're dead. he told me forever, he promised me everything and he told me he'd die for me. but about a month ago, he ended it, i asked him if he liked someone else and he said "dunno." i managed to get it out of him, and he told me he did like someone else. my heart literally sunk, but then he asked me back out again, but this time it was different, on his facebook, he would constantly flirt with girls and say "i love you" to them, and he had a bit of an alcohol problem, and i asked him to stop cus i didnt want it to hurt him, he promised me he wouldnt but then he posted on his facebook after we had a little arguement that he was drunk.. he ended it again a couple of weeks later cus it "wasnt working out" and now, i miss him, after all that he done, i miss him. is it normal for me to? or am i just being stupid?

Is It Normal?
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  • Love can be both blind and stupid you can do better move on.

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  • Yeah its normal, I have a bf and he acts like such an idiot, but at the end of it all I still always miss him. It's sucks, i know, but you have got to do what is best for you in the long run. He does not sound mature or serious and those are the types of guys you shouls avoid.

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  • I have the same problem with my gf :( I really love her

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  • oh no... of course it's normal for you to miss him! you've shared a lot of feelings with him.

    but obviously you need to move on from this douchebag.

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  • I think it's normal to miss him, bcuz u miss the guy that was calling you beautiful, gorgous ect. However, that's not him right now. & Guys that are real charming in the beginning, are easily likely to do it to another girl & another girl. You CoULd have a player on yr hands. I think you should let him go & let him figure out what he wants on his own. & not take you along for the ride of getting hurt. & like the two comments above, don't let him think he has you on the side while he plays the field. Hope this helps.

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  • I agree with the post above. Yeah.. Get out of it Hun. Guys are punks sometimes, you can tell he's just not that into you anymore. Sorry.

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  • He is taking you for a ride while he figures out what he wants. Break it off now, he will only continue to hurt you. He doesn't want you, he wants to play the field. I'm a guy and have been there.

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