It's normal for young girls to like older guys and vice versa. You like it because of the attention and now you find it's addicting. Like an addict you get off on the high of the ego boost it gives you. Everyone wants to feel like they're the man and wants the opposite sex to find them appealing and irresistible so i can understand the high you get from all the attention and flirtations. Also because of the maturity and experience factor you find them easy to mold like putty in your hands because they are transiting from childhood to adulthood and at that age they are trying to figure out the complexities of life. Even you stated you find them sweet, trusting and naive. To answer your questions is it normal behavior? If it was you wouldn't be asking the question looking for reassurance because when someone is doing the right thing they don't need that assurance from anyone .How wrong is it? It's wrong because you are wasting your time and energy and giving them false hope for a relationship that cannot progress like a normal relationship because of the age and maturity imbalance between the 2 parties. That is why its better for a 14 year old to pursue a relationship with another 14 year old because they are both learning by trial and error how relationships should be and its ethical and legal if they want make it a romantic or sexual one. With you its retarding their romantic and sexual development at a critical age because a relationship with you cannot progress to that point. When she becomes an adult she will find you repulsive and predatory and blame you for retarding her development at that critical age. How can I stop? By realizing that you are retarding their development you are doing more harm than the good than by being a trusting listening confident.You admit you have a problem by asking how can you stop, you like catching underage girls in your web and its more addicting than porn to you. That is a good first step in realizing the problem. Go to a trained professional would be my advice for the problem you have may be more common then you think.
Is it normal I make 14 year old girls fall in love with me?
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It's normal for young girls to like older guys and vice versa. You like it because of the attention and now you find it's addicting. Like an addict you get off on the high of the ego boost it gives you. Everyone wants to feel like they're the man and wants the opposite sex to find them appealing and irresistible so i can understand the high you get from all the attention and flirtations. Also because of the maturity and experience factor you find them easy to mold like putty in your hands because they are transiting from childhood to adulthood and at that age they are trying to figure out the complexities of life. Even you stated you find them sweet, trusting and naive. To answer your questions is it normal behavior? If it was you wouldn't be asking the question looking for reassurance because when someone is doing the right thing they don't need that assurance from anyone .How wrong is it? It's wrong because you are wasting your time and energy and giving them false hope for a relationship that cannot progress like a normal relationship because of the age and maturity imbalance between the 2 parties. That is why its better for a 14 year old to pursue a relationship with another 14 year old because they are both learning by trial and error how relationships should be and its ethical and legal if they want make it a romantic or sexual one. With you its retarding their romantic and sexual development at a critical age because a relationship with you cannot progress to that point. When she becomes an adult she will find you repulsive and predatory and blame you for retarding her development at that critical age. How can I stop? By realizing that you are retarding their development you are doing more harm than the good than by being a trusting listening confident.You admit you have a problem by asking how can you stop, you like catching underage girls in your web and its more addicting than porn to you. That is a good first step in realizing the problem. Go to a trained professional would be my advice for the problem you have may be more common then you think.