It's okay to recognize that a teenage girl is attractive and/or call her pretty, talking to them is fine. Obviously there are younger girls that have no problem flirting with an older guys, but it's not good to lead them on. Let her know that she's a great girl, but it makes you feel like you're taking advantage of her (b/c she's underage).
Just be careful it doesn't develop into anything sexual (i.e. cybersex, naked/suggestive photos, etc). If it does, then that's where you have to draw the line.
If you ever feel like you might have a problem of sorts, then stop what you're doing and get a counselor.
PS- On the other hand, you can wait until she's 18. Perfectly legal that way!
We've actually had that discussion already(By we've, I mean me and her.) As I've said, I am open and honest with the girls.
Some people on here act like I tell her my age and she goes "Oh welp thats ok, I'm too naive to understand our age difference or that you could be after me."
In fact, she is extremely aware of the dangers, And I hope she would be.
What I can do is assure her I'm not a bad guy (which is the truth) and allow her to decide for herself, which she has.
Is it normal I make 14 year old girls fall in love with me?
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It's okay to recognize that a teenage girl is attractive and/or call her pretty, talking to them is fine. Obviously there are younger girls that have no problem flirting with an older guys, but it's not good to lead them on. Let her know that she's a great girl, but it makes you feel like you're taking advantage of her (b/c she's underage).
Just be careful it doesn't develop into anything sexual (i.e. cybersex, naked/suggestive photos, etc). If it does, then that's where you have to draw the line.
If you ever feel like you might have a problem of sorts, then stop what you're doing and get a counselor.
PS- On the other hand, you can wait until she's 18. Perfectly legal that way!
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We've actually had that discussion already(By we've, I mean me and her.) As I've said, I am open and honest with the girls.
Some people on here act like I tell her my age and she goes "Oh welp thats ok, I'm too naive to understand our age difference or that you could be after me."
In fact, she is extremely aware of the dangers, And I hope she would be.
What I can do is assure her I'm not a bad guy (which is the truth) and allow her to decide for herself, which she has.