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Is it normal i make 14 year old girls fall in love with me?

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Ok, I'm going to make this short and sweet. I know I'll probably get a lot of negative feed back, but please try and understand.

I'm a male in my mid 20s, I go on a lot of social networking sites, recently I found a gaming/social networking website that is littered with young girls.

I have a picture of myself on my profile there, and I would say I'm a reasonably good looking guy.

Anyway, it boggles my mind how easy it is to throw a few compliments at teenage girls 14-17 usually, and they are like putty in my hands. Once I tell them my age, they rarely care, or act like they care but continue to talk/flirt with me.

I admit that I like young girls (not prepubescent) but teenage minors. It turns me on that I like this. I love the attention.

I would think that younger girls would be harder to get, but it seems that is not the case at all. They are very sweet and trusting, also very naive I admit.

Anyways my questions are: Is this normal behavior? How wrong is it? Am I hurting any one? How can I stop?(it's become an addiction) I like catching teen girls in my web more than I like porn these days.

God help me.

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Wendell

11 years ago | pl

they're not really girls they are 50 year old men who are looking for a good time.

Reversal. Who's the naive one?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  11 years ago
  
  Well, the one I would consider my girlfriend right now (is 14) and I've cammed with her on skype, so that's pretty impossible.
  
  Truth be told I actually found this site from a IIN member talking about a game on there.
  
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  - Lynxikat
    
    11 years ago
    
    Your "girlfriend" is fourteen? If you really are a "reasonably good looking guy", why have such low standards as picking a kid who's not even in high school yet? That's pretty pathetic. Like Parrish said, any guy in his mid-twenties who's "going out" with a child who isn't even in high school yet is a loser who is too immature to get a real woman his age.
    
    Grow the fuck up.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      11 years ago | pl
      
      You're asking questions I've already answered. Why have such low standards? That's not low standards TO ME. That's around the age where many girls are as pretty as they're every gonna be TO ME.
      
      It has absolutely nothing to do with maturity. It's called a preference. We all have them in one way or another.
      
      I like what I like and I'm not going to sacrifice so people will "respect" me more.
      
      How about a little respect for being open and honest with my feelings.
      
      If people weren't this would be a pretty dull website.
      
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      - gander1
        
        8 years ago
        
        Don't listen to these people who judge you. There's a reason why Lolita is one of the top five classic novels ever written: Because the attraction is normal. People IDENTIFY with the older man's yearning for love and lust without baggage. And the older women get, the more baggage they have. 14-year olds usually just like you for you--they are not into the manipulation yet--though Lolita, of course, was. They typically don't criticize you, worry about what your career plans are, judge you for your money, etc. And sometimes they actually are more mature than many older women. After all, isn't a made-up woman just a woman trying to look like a child? I'm not saying you should do anything illegal--just that the attraction can be normal. But be careful not to hurt anyone.
        
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      - Feremugi-Fix-Fix
        
        7 years ago
        
        Exactly
        
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    - Feremugi-Fix-Fix
      
      7 years ago
      
      You've get it all wrong. There are people who just aren't attracted to women their age and especially not older ones. I am personally attracted to people my age, not older and young girls.
      
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    8 years ago
    
    What's the site, svfcafam26 kik
    
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NeuroNeptunian

11 years ago | pl

Aside from the possibility that I will be seeing you on to catch a predator, no it's not normal.

Unfortunately, young girls are more vulnerable to this often because they have not been taught proper internet safety skills and they have low self esteem so they really appreciate anyone that offers them assurance.

That said, no, it's not right. You'd be lucky to not get into some trouble some time down the road. You're exhibiting your low self esteem by needing assurance of your worth from these young girls and you need to unplug the computer and find healthy activities to restore your self worth.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  11 years ago
  
  Thank you for your opinion, but I don't think that is likely. I have plenty of self-control if in real life. Over the internet it's more of erotic pass time that is completely legal.
  
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  - NeuroNeptunian
    
    11 years ago
    
    Like I said. It's easy for the threshold to be crossed once you have become accustomed the practice. Whether or not you have self control in real life isn't the issue. This is a pretty slippery slope, so if even if you have no problem with the ethics of it, you'd still better watch your step.
    
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[Old Memory]

11 years ago

My friend Pedobear here, wants to know what kind of wonderful site would that be? *wink*
He is sure that you guys can share!

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- Dad
  
  11 years ago
  
  I've heard of this mysterious site called Facebook, maybe that's it?
  
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  - [Old Memory]
    
    11 years ago
    
    Damn.. no, facebook is the ultimate evil, like the eye of sauron!
    
    Ain't worth my soul :)
    
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  - Anonymous Post Author
    
    11 years ago
    
    definitely not, facebook sucks, and the girls are much less approachable.
    
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  11 years ago
  
  First of all it's not pedophilia, it's ephebophilia. And if pedo bear is you I'd gladly share the site, privately of course.
  
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  - Feremugi-Fix-Fix
    
    7 years ago
    
    Tell us goddammit
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      7 years ago
      
      Sorry you're out of luck. It was called Omgpop.com. It was a combination of a social community and mini-multiplayer game website. Sadly, Zynga came by and bought them out. I need a new outlet to flirt with young girls.
      
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  - [Old Memory]
    
    11 years ago
    
    Well, what is it?
    
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    5 years ago
    
    Yes please 😍
    
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anti-hero

11 years ago | pl

I will keep this short and sour. You are a loser who can't get real women, so you mess with little girls on the internet. You are roughly my age and if I was doing the things you are doing, I would kill myself.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  11 years ago
  
  To be honest they are more real to me than some of the women my age I have dated. All their emotions and thoughts are pure and they are very innocent.
  
  And again, like I said, it's just for fun, I don't expect anything to come of it they live in different areas of the country. Eventually they will get bored and get a boyfriend or I will get an adult girlfriend and move on. No one is getting hurt here.
  
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  - anti-hero
    
    11 years ago
    
    Denial isn't just a river in Egypt.
    
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    - Lynxikat
      
      11 years ago
      
      LOL, I saw what you did there.
      
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      - anti-hero
        
        11 years ago
        
        haha I know right? That joke is old enough to vote... and saying "that joke is old enough to vote" is old enough to be in middle school.
        
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- Captain_Kegstand
  
  11 years ago
  
  Phew, I was going to say roughly the same thing, but I am not sure I have it in me to suggest suicide (I guess I am just a pussy lolz)
  
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    11 years ago
    
    I am an asshole, what can I say?
    
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Dad

11 years ago

Standard abusive replies above Lol.

Of course its normal.

Young girls ARE attractive, they are fun and everything is pure and wonderful.
Why only a few thousand years ago around 14 was the normal relationship stage.
I've seen many attractive teenagers, even people comment at times. What a beautiful girl you are etc etc etc.

What guys and our entire society, do these days is NOT act on such things.
We have confirmed that young teenagers (as awkward as they generally are, both physically and emotionally) are just not ready for a relationship with an older man. They may say they love or like you or even want to get to know you, but give it a few years and they'll also be taking you to court! Basically their mind is still developing. How they feel now is NOT how they will feel in 6months or a year or two.

It is not safe for YOU (let alone the girl, but I'll leave her out of this) to be forming any type of relationship with a young teenager online. Definitely this is an area that police monitor, plus everything you do online is logged and kept. Its safe to say, stop immediately and probably go offline for a while!

Guys look at attractive teenagers all the time (as per the above comments, most won't admit it) You cannot act on this.
NO game relationship building
NO messaging or emailing
NO meeting ever (and do note you could be quite possibly building a relationship with a cop and not a girl!)

These feelings of yours should be redirected from admiring innocent beauty, to trying to get into a normal relationship. You know you're 25ish, having an 18yo gf most won't freak out! BEST to find a legal older girl (really meaning 18, 19, 20, 21 area) before you get too old and DO look strange with them too. Actually you are very lucky that you are 25 and can meet young (adult) ladies

Don't waste your life on pics, movies and 'Internet' girls. Go out and actually find a real young adult girl that you can hold and kiss, even in public!
By the way, an 18,19,20,21 yo girls are already VERY young. Yes they are legal, but seriously don't miss this chance with them. Oh and grow with them in a relationship.

Goodluck :)

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  11 years ago
  
  Wow you really do sound like a dad.
  
  To answer some of what you said. I don't care who is monitoring me or what is being logged. I've never propositioned a minor for sex, or naked pictures, nor do I intend to, so I'm pretty sure I'm in legal territory.
  
  I am not some internet nerd that wastes his life having online relationships. I am actually on the rebound from a recent real life relationship. I don't feel like 'getting involved' again at the moment.
  
  I do like younger girls I say it proudly, that doesn't mean it's exclusive. It's just semi-erotic hobby of mine right now that usually lasts less than an hour out of my whole day. Other than that I'm an average mid 20s single working joe.
  
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  - Dad
    
    11 years ago
    
    Thanks for the reply.
    
    I understand the 'fun' involved. But since you brought up why are they even attracted to you to begin with (your other replies), I may as well tell you.
    
    The reason is because you are older, you know what they want (through conversation, emotional support and even physical contact)
    It all seems quite simple when you're older. Its true to say that any older guy could easily do what you are doing. When a 14yo girl says: 'I hate that bitch face friend of mine' The 'normal' response from any other 14yo would be, 'Why, what's wrong? Are you ok?' This is just all too normal girl talk.
    
    But you (in the picture) could address the specific issue and resolve it in minutes!
    I mean seriously the girl would think you are her hero.
    Basically its giving the girl exactly what she wants/needs (to hear, or feel, or even a shoulder to lean on) Kinda like a spoilt brat would get.
    
    Generally many girls miss out on this around the 14, 15, 16 age from their parents. Either the parents are sick to death of her attitude! Or they have had a moments lapse, or the 'girl' herself just won't open up to her parents any longer. Since other 14yo girls/boys have no idea how to handle the situation, along comes you.
    
    Here's the concern. And note, we (society in general) fully respect the following.
    An adult (other than parent) should NOT interfere with a young girl's life. EVEN if you could easily help, or make them even more happier. The girl needs to grow up with her friends and age group, it is a 100% proven success rate in all conditions.
    When you throw a spanner into the works (ie you) then anything could happen.
    The girl may not grow in maturity.
    She may miss out on her own age group friends and fun times.
    She may decide to take her own life. ie Not fitting in anywhere now!
    She may even have early pregnancy (and note, it may not even be from you, YOU just made her feel its ok to be with older men!)
    
    It is a CRITICAL time. Just ask any parent. These girls are extremely sensitive. They are still learning right from wrong, good from bad. I mean seriously they only started menstrual cycle not long before that! They are still getting use to their own body.
    They may still be in the I love Justin Bieber stage, they have NO idea what love is at all, But they are learning with their friends. (oh, same age group friends)
    
    Its up to you to make a mature and responsible decision (even if you enjoy their company, or even if you are attracted to them, or even if anything you can think of!) To NOT be a part of their life.
    Their life consists of other friends their age. Their parents (by the way, do not get involved with others 'parenting' techniques, they have been with her since birth!) And probably their loving pets. Let alone schoolwork, and house duties etc.
    
    You need to be strong and let go.
    Agree that you like them. But you MUST let go for them, think of it as saving their lives.
    Oh, and I don't think you truly picked up my point earlier. 18 is young. Seriously you WILL enjoy this age group (and higher) and being 25 you are missing out on all the real fun. Note: Sleep overs at 18 is VERY normal, since its up to them only!
    
    Please re-read before commenting back. If you comment back.
    
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      11 years ago
      
      My ex as 19 and she was a bitch and totally boring in the sack, just goes to show age has no indication of how a person will be.
      
      Unless you have a degree in psychology I can't buy anything you just said, and even if you did, I'd still be skeptical.
      
      The main girl I'm speaking with has already confessed to me she has been raped by her uncle, started smoking crystal meth at 11, quit at 13, and her parents didn't want her.
      
      I think the exact opposite of what you're suggesting. She needs a positive adult male figure to show her that men aren't all bad, and she needs an adult to care for her.
      
      Now you may be saying, why make it romantic? Well, that's a simple answer as any. It's what we both wanted. I would never take advantage of a young girl (sexually.) I am simply there to listen to her and encourage her.
      
      Suffice it to say, I resent that you're suggesting the "harm" I could cause her psyche in the future.
      
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      - myboyfriendsbitch
        
        11 years ago
        
        The beautiful mixed girl who is overly developed for her age? Tell me who her uncle is and I'll find out if she was raped. This girl wouldn't smoke meth , she doesn't even like weed all that much. Her mother had her at a young age and her dad was ¤ get this ¤ 15 years older than her mother. If this sounds like your girl please do her a favor and ease yourself out of her life. I know enough about you and I know my way around the system enough to make sure you never hurt her. If fate deems you worthy of her companionship later in life, so be it, but LET HER GROW UP.
        
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      - Dad
        
        11 years ago
        
        Age does bring wisdom. I mean look at you at your youthful age of 25ish and she is 14.
        When you get much older you do see things more clearly. Not only that but you have experienced much of what life has to offer. I can tell you now that I am much more experienced and more knowledgeable than some young person who has finalized their psychology degree.
        Ironically I even went out with a girl who had completed a psychology degree, trust me, she had NO idea of life.
        
        What you stated about her past does require a trusted source to help guide her through these present issues. I have read all your words, and guess what, you are not the trusted source.
        The reasons why I say this is because you have other interests that may (and will) interfere with what she really needs and how to get back on top. Note: This is why I mentioned 'it is a 100% proven success rate in all conditions'. 'All' was implying even the bad times.
        
        She does NOT need a male figure in her life at the moment. If I was speaking directly to her I'd even say maybe stay away from bf/gf relationships until you get yourself sorted out. Note these teenage issues can last a lifetime (or further as in future babies/children) if the young girl is not given the proper care.
        
        Care for children is as follows:
        A roof over their head and their own bed.
        Education through normal educational institutions like a school.
        Love and respect by a trusting carer who ONLY has her best interests at heart
        Food and proper diet. This means a balanced diet to the best of your ability.
        A trusted guardian/parent to provide this, otherwise they will be cared for by the government.
        Health (Note this is the main area you fall down in, as for the others you likely do as well) Health means getting her the proper support. Removing abusers or even taking them to court. Seeking doctors/counselors (for physical and mental well being)
        Confirming any present issues (even drugs or substance abuse) physical issues are taken care of. And on going support with a psychologist 'referred' by a doctor.
        Also note, the police should be advised of her present living arrangements and safety. She can't live no where.
        
        You are not in a position to do this as you have romantic feelings for her. By the way which I have already addressed in post1 These actions are wrong and unlawful no matter what. It actually shows your immaturity and unsafe habits to minors. Children should definitely not be left in your care atm.
        Post2 I spoke about why she has 'mistakenly' gone for you. I even mentioned anyone could do this! The reason why we stop is because of 1. The law 2. Safety for the minor 3. Maturity of you (You address none of these)
        Post3 (this one) is RE-advising you that YOU are NOT in the best position to look after a troubled 14yo girl. This shows clearly, by you not even understanding and taking in what I write to you.
        
        You are not normal
        Sadly the situation is.
        This girl (hopefully if she is allowed to read here, unlikely of course!) should seek help immediately. The police can help refer you to safe trusted house and home, where you can grow and become a lady. Who knows, you could be a child helper yourself one day. I VERY much doubt you will say go to a 25yo who has immature sexual feelings for you!
        
        Time to wake up. All things must end. It would be nice if YOU could be the mature one and make the first decent move.
        
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        11 years ago
        
        Of course I'm not, we are basically friends over the internet who happen to give EACHOHTER something they need at the moment, understanding and compassion. I am open and honest with any girl I meet. I don't lie about my age and I share my face plainly, as I do here on my actual profile.
        
        Obviously I cannot provide for her in the ways you stated at the moment. That doesn't mean I wouldn't be willing to.
        
        These actions are NOT unlawful where I come from.
        
        I have heard everything you said, certainly by now you know I'm my own man and can listen to your advice while still disagreeing, and dismissing most of it.
        
        I'm of the opinion only she knows what's best for her. I'm not a fan of a law that says plainly you have to be 17 or 18 before you can THINK for yourself.
        
        And if she could or does read here it wouldn't make bit of difference, because we've already discussed much of what I'm talking about here together. YES, believe it or not she is capable of understanding the age difference and the ramifications behind it.
        
        Bottom line is, I will not turn her away, to me that would make me just another man in her life that let her down. She can make the decision to walk away on her own. I am not a danger to this girl, or any other, no matter how much you try to paint me as one.
        
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      - [Old Memory]
        
        11 years ago
        
        Regarding what your "main girl" told you, I think you should take that as a hint. I think her story is rather typical for young females who develop an infatuation with older men; daddy issues, basically.
        
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        11 years ago
        
        I do take it as a hint. Which is why I choose to be a man to listen instead of a man who shuns her.
        
        Somebody in this thread called me a "predator." Well I don't agree with that. I didn't go to this site thinking I was going to meet young girls or pursue any sort of relationship with them. I actually just went there to try the games.
        
        Come to find out, many of the girls were interested in talking to me, without any provocation besides a friendly initial chat, they still pursued flirting with me and the like, even after they come to find out my age.
        
        I don't think anything I'm doing or saying to them is damaging. They may be naive but they aren't stupid, and I'm not going to treat them like they are because they are just "kids" to some of you. To me, they are young adults.
        
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    8 years ago
    
    I disagree with "Dad." Nothing is wrong with having friendships with, and even loving, young girls--as long as that's what it really is. If it's an honest like and respect for each other, then you will still feel the same way 6 months later, even if both people change as people. As with any human beings, it must be mutual--and not just seductive or whatever.
    
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VioletTrees

11 years ago

14 year old girls are easy to manipulate because they're young and unsure of themselves. You're toying with these girls, and it's a really awful thing to do. It's probable that you're hurting them by flirting with them and then inexplicably losing interest. Stop it.

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duckdynastygirl

11 years ago

People may not see it as normal but I'm 16 and female and talk to guys around 19-23. my family knows I like older guys. (:

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  11 years ago
  
  Good for you hun, just be careful. There are dangerous men out there, that is not a lie.
  
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[Old Memory]

11 years ago

you'll pay but it might be worth it, its the unknown < gulp >

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[Old Memory]

11 years ago

Alright, I'm just going to try to keep the raw emotion out of this.

It's PROBABLY normal that you fancy females that young - although 14 is simply cutting it too close.
It's PROBABLY normal that they like to flirt with you a bit.

With that said, stop trying to play the victim; you're the adult, please act like one. Now leave those girls alone or you very well may regret it.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  11 years ago
  
  Of course it's normal, I bet every guy on this site has caught a glance of a minor before.
  
  The only difference is I seek them out for my guilty pleasures. Not for sex, just for companionship.
  
  Loneliness makes a man do strange things.
  
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myboyfriendsbitch

11 years ago

Hell no! Some dickhead like you is taking advantage of my niece, or perhaps it is you and that disgusts me. This guy is getting her hopes up, giving her a false sense of security, making her think she is in an actual relationship and causing issues with her family. Her dumb little friends think this is ok too. She looks a lot older, so it makes sense for older guys to be interested in her, but I say FUCK PEOPLE LIKE YOU. She could be with someone that actually cares about HER, but you are wasting her damn time. How dare you use young girls like that! You may think you are making them feel better, but you are ruining their self-esteem. Please stop now and get a life.

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  11 years ago
  
  Nope, not like that at all, I care about the girls, especially one in particular. If something was to come of it I'd wait for her no problem.
  
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  - myboyfriendsbitch
    
    11 years ago
    
    You know what you're doing is wrong our you wouldn't be asking for help. You wanted to know how you are hurting these girls - you are giving them a false sense of security; when they figure you out they will have trust issues. They are either lying to their families about you or disconnecting themselves from their families because of you. They could be learning real relationship skills if they weren't being played by you. You know you are manipulating them because you describe them as "putty in your hands." You are interfering with their natural development and that is wrong. Please stop. They are at too fragile an age to be messed with like that. Try taking to a 15 year old, then a 16 year old, then 17, then 18. Then make yourself decide to only talk too girls 18 and older
    
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      11 years ago
      
      I do know these things, feels good. lol. But as conniving as it may seem I actually like the girls.
      
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      - myboyfriendsbitch
        
        11 years ago
        
        Of course you like them. They feed into your sick games.they make you feel good about yourself. But are you doing the same for them? No. you are like a drug to them. If you love them please leave them alone and find something better to do with your time and encourage others like you to do the same.
        
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        11 years ago
        
        Oh please drama queen. I'm not hurting the girls. Your reaction is way over the top, something as if I said "I'm having sex with 14 year olds." I am merely chattily flirting with them OVER the internet.
        
        Just because you don't like my guilty pleasure don't try to blow it up and out of proportion.
        
        Get over yourself nutcase. It's harmless. And guess what else? LEGAL. Must not be that bad.
        
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        myboyfriendsbitch
        
        11 years ago
        
        That's right. Delete your soulless warped opinions bitch. Also delete yourself from these girls' life before i find you myself. Don't think i don't know people.
        
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blaster

11 years ago

What's the "you'll be like a drug to her " , sort of get it but sort of not , need more on it.

But anyway . Yeah no good playing around with them just because you like how you can get them keen on you , that's cruel man.
But , with the one you are actually keen on . No idea really I mean in a way , isn't it good that she has someone whom she can talk to , feel nice around , feel special too. I mean it's like anyone as long as she's not being used and you even said you'd wait for her so your not interested in taking advantage of her.
Even if it goes no where I mean as long as your looking after her why wouldn't it be something she looks back on fondly even if she does decide later your not for her.

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Dad

11 years ago

I had a life damn you! It may not have been the best life, but it was mine, and you stole that from me. I hope you rot in jail you bastard!

Oh, just getting you ready for the inevitable breakup.
Did you think she'd just leave like a mature adult? Oh dear you have a lot to learn.
Her 'friends' have probably already called the police. Since they are not bewildered by your magical powers of lust!

Honestly it would be very scary in jail for this.
The truth really does hurt. And in your case it will be a very sore backside.

How could she do this to you? She grew up.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  11 years ago
  
  That's cute. You seem a little more invested in this than one should be.
  
  Again, like others you've made it sound worse than it is.
  
  As if to say I'm a predator targeting girls for my own lustrous needs.
  
  And you keep talking about the police, what are they gonna tell the police?
  
  "oh my friend who is 14 is talking to a guy online who is too old for her."
  
  -police "well has the man tried to solicit her for sex?" -no
  
  -police "well is the man attempting to gain sexual favor such as explicit photos" well no.
  
  -police "well then there is nothing we can do."
  
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  11 years ago
  
  Still here Dad(No I'm not writing you from prison,) I guess I'm walking on the right side of the law after all huh?
  
  I haven't seen any black vans outside my home or nothing. No run ins with parents. Just good clean fun as I promised.
  
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  - Dad
    
    11 years ago
    
    Thanks for the reply.
    
    By the way, how would you know that I'd still be reading or interested all this time later on? I mean we are talking half a year ago!
    
    Are you still chatting with this 'amazingly beautiful' young girl, or has she now aged and become less attractive to you? Lol.
    
    I can't be worn down! I'm the type of guy that continuously thinks. I tend to 'think' best under pressure too! My point is that the debate itself was not won by you. In actual fact I have come out on top because my words may have kept you at bay. How's that for thinking ;)
    
    Back to topic. Reading your last comment, Why? have you been paranoid?
    If not, then has this 'love affair' been able to blossom? I mean come on, its been six months. Are you still friends with the 'beautiful' one? Or is there some fresh blood in your life?
    
    Offtopic. Hey Anonymous Poll Creator, you say '25', or that age group. I'll tell you now that I'm much more wiser than you, since at 25, I had many girlfriends, and it wasn't just talk. Actual real physical contact. Exactly why is it that you are not having physical contact with a girl? Are you? I'm thinking no. THIS is likely why you come across very frustrated defending your actions, you are missing out! And you know it. Hmm, just give me the story straight and I'll try to set you up properly with a 'girl', ie 18+ OR continue this concern of yours (young teens falling in love with you) but this time bring me up to date.
    
    I have my concerns for you, they may come close but likely will not end, at least that's what I presently think. Under a no direct reply, please reply in 6 months, I'm always on, 'somewhere' on the Internet, maybe I've even gone to your sites.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      11 years ago
      
      -Because I knew if you were still around you'd get the notification of my reply, and alas, here you are responding mere 10 hours later. Simple enough.
      
      -Because you were one of the most vocal protesters in my thread.
      
      -No i'm not still chatting with young teenage girls on the internet, I'm in a relationship with a woman of legal age.
      
      -Should note,this is not an admission of guilt or regret.
      
      -I had no idea we were "debating" to win or lose. This isn't politics. But if that's what you thought, you're more than welcome to take home your cyber-gold trophy and first place ribbon.
      
      -When did I tell you I was a virgin? I lost it in my teens. I have had 4 long term relationships, 3 of which were sexual, and am currently on my 5th. However, I wrote this post at a time of being a single bachelor; Not being ashamed to admit my attraction to the female persuasion below the age of consent.
      
      -For the umpteenth time I didn't pursue these girls at the time for ANY sort of sexual encounter. Not because I don't find them sexually aesthetic, but because I too believe it would not only be improper, but illegal.
      
      -Free Tip, I can tell you're a person who is very opinionated. But you should really try to keep it to one subject at a time. I basically had to make bullet points to answer everything in your post because you're all over the place. Unless you're about to kick the bucket, take a Xanax and tone it down a notch.
      
      Even Obama and Romney didn't debate this many different issues on the same subject at one time.
      
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      - Dad
        
        11 years ago
        
        Of course these teenage girls are aesthetic to the common guy. I'd be lying if I said otherwise. The problem is when they speak! Or run down a dark alley in the middle of the night and say, 'See it IS safe'. Good luck with following them down there yourself with your thoughts of equality, maybe it is safe, those color markings on the walls are just there to scare you ;)
        
        Teenagers (young teenagers) still need to be cared for. If they run off, the police may be called. I'll tell you now that you running off, no one would care less. They need education, guidance, stability, a safe home with caring others inside.
        
        Just the 'look' of them is NOT enough for a relationship. Seriously a 'guy' (older guy) would get bored in about a day. THIS is why 'guys' may look, but they then think to themselves, forget that WAY too much work involved. Conversation is limited to her level only, enjoyment consists of painting nails and 'shopping', and other girly talk. Seriously eventually (a day or two) you will be holding back screaming at her, 'Just, Shut Up'. They (generalization) say that the only people who can put up with a teenager mood swings are her parents, because they know they'll still be there when she's actually grown up.
        
        Beautiful? Of course. But not enough to piss you off to the max in a day. Time to go home sweety, I think I hear Justin Beiber calling you!
        
        THIS is why 'guys' of 26, say no thanks, their just irritating as all fck, maybe when I'm 35 or 40 I could give some PATIENT time for that twisted emotional wreck. For the moment I'm 'hanging' with my woman! Oh by the way, congrats on the new gf, maybe don't talk about this subject to her, she may not be as understanding ;)
        
        And thanks for the point to point reply, I'm generally tired when I write here, so no doubt this passage is also all over the place.
        
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captainawesome

11 years ago

It's okay to recognize that a teenage girl is attractive and/or call her pretty, talking to them is fine. Obviously there are younger girls that have no problem flirting with an older guys, but it's not good to lead them on. Let her know that she's a great girl, but it makes you feel like you're taking advantage of her (b/c she's underage).

Just be careful it doesn't develop into anything sexual (i.e. cybersex, naked/suggestive photos, etc). If it does, then that's where you have to draw the line.

If you ever feel like you might have a problem of sorts, then stop what you're doing and get a counselor.

PS- On the other hand, you can wait until she's 18. Perfectly legal that way!

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  11 years ago
  
  We've actually had that discussion already(By we've, I mean me and her.) As I've said, I am open and honest with the girls.
  
  Some people on here act like I tell her my age and she goes "Oh welp thats ok, I'm too naive to understand our age difference or that you could be after me."
  
  In fact, she is extremely aware of the dangers, And I hope she would be.
  
  What I can do is assure her I'm not a bad guy (which is the truth) and allow her to decide for herself, which she has.
  
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disthing

11 years ago

I think that you liking young teens isn't such a big deal, but the fact that you are intentionally leading them on IS a big deal. You're being manipulative and predatory with children that aren't wise enough to know better, and that's unfair.

If you're going to do this, at least keep it online - if it transfers to an offline scenario and you actually make sexual advances on these young girls then you deserve to be punished. Control your dick, don't be a manipulative asshole, pursue girls old enough to legally consent and don't treat women like toys to play with and massage your ego.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  11 years ago
  
  Probably the best post so far, thanks for not jumping down my throat like some of the others on here.
  
  You are right in that I shouldn't pursue multiple girls and lead them on.
  
  There's only one that has most of my attention, she is amazingly beautiful. Unfortunately I can't share her pictures because that would be unfair to her.
  
  The rest of the girls are just kind of friends, although admittedly pretty ones.
  
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alv1592

11 years ago

Not normal at all. Of course young girls like older men, but you can't keep flirting with them or leading them on. That makes you a pedo.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  11 years ago
  
  People use that term so much, as if it's bothersome. It's not. But just the same, it is an incorrect label. I'm not attracted to prepubescent girls.
  
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bearcatbanana

11 years ago

Look at this website: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ages_of_consent_in_North_America

Since you are hitting on girls on the internet, look at this one too: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Age_of_Consent_-_Global.svg

Stay away. If any of their parents catch you, they will be pissed. That father who beat the child molester to death in Shiner, TX in front of his 4 year old...that father who violently spanked the 24 year old who was consentingly with his 17 year old on YouTube... Do you want to go there?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  11 years ago
  
  Amusing that I missed this post. I don't care about the Age of Consent, it's different all over the world, and across the U.S. But, that's irrelevant because I'm not asking any girls to consent to any sort of sexual encounter.
  
  As for the second part, which was the part I laughed at. I'm a 6'0 212 lb man who wrestled in high school and college, and did some kickboxing for a year at an MMA gym and competed in Amateur bouts.
  
  I also own a firearm. Unless I hit on Anderson Silva's daughter I think I'll be OK.
  
  Oh and Texans are bitches, it's unlikely I'd flirt with one of their inbred daughters. I'm from Baltimore dude, get out of here with that Texas shit. Lol.
  
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[Old Memory]

11 years ago

Yeah it just happens to be that young chicks are easily impressed by older men. I'm mid twenties, hardly ever meet other mid twenties women, yet every seventeen year old i meet wants to screw me. I don't really complain though, just enjoy it while it lasts. Some of my "friends" think i'm a bit dodgey that way but aslong as they're over sixteen what's the harm.

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- [Old Memory]
  
  11 years ago
  
  Suuurrre. Whatever you say, man.
  
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    11 years ago
    
    Misanthrope....hahahaha...you don't fuck anyone....oh wait...your just a poser.
    
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  11 years ago
  
  Thanks for understanding.
  
  This was also the general question I hoped to get answered, which between all the insults I don't think I've gotten any input.
  
  I'm a curious person as well and I'm trying to understand why so many girls go to grown men for affection instead of boys their own age.
  
  Also I'd just like to say to everyone, there are two sides to this coin which I just noted above. Yes younger girls are more naive, but still, that's no excuse to voluntarily be "prayed on" as you angry haters would say.
  
  The girls like it, if they didn't I would not even bother. It's easy affection from beautiful young girls. It's fun for me and it's fun for them. Get over yourselves.
  
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  - myboyfriendsbitch
    
    11 years ago
    
    You got plenty of answers. You just need to learn to read between the insults.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      11 years ago
      
      they're all insults to me. What do you mutha fuckin keyboard therapists think you're going to accomplish here?
      
      I already kind of knew the reaction I'd get. Yall only read it and hear it the way you WANT to.
      
      That's the problem. Too many dumb ass kids on this site.
      
      It should be embarrassing for you all that this girl is more intelligent than you.
      
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  - jucedaguy
    
    11 years ago
    
    You sick fuck.
    
    So now you're actually blaming the girls. Because you target these vulnerable girls, at their ages with hormones overriding there self image, emotions and heart.... They just love it when a predator like you comes along tells them everything they want to hear.
    
    You are one low mongrel.... And blaming the girls??? Wtf!
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      11 years ago
      
      Blaming huh? No I am giving them credit for their maturity.
      
      It is so easy for society to deem people who are a certain age as incapable of thinking for themselves.
      
      It's an insult to them, and people who tow this line are nothing more than sheep.
      
      I prefer to listen to people speak and gauge whether they are mature enough.
      
      Suffice it to say, she displays a much greater level of acumen than someone like you, and many others who have attacked me, which kind of amuses me, in that you talk about maturity she is much more so than a lot of you.
      
      But as long as you feel superior because of your age, or inferior because if your age, you are basically displaying exactly what I anticipated. Age is just a number.
      
      Not everything can fit into a neat little box. Life experience dictates a lot of a person knows, thinks, and is capable of.
      
      Age doesn't define life experience exclusively, sorry to be the bearer of bad news.
      
      Anyways, she is a good sweet compassionate girl that I care about, and would never want to hurt or abuse.
      
      You can accuse me of mental or emotional abuse, like DAD here, but you are incorrect.
      
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Brickinit

11 years ago

Scummy cunt!

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  11 years ago
  
  Ouch my Soul!
  
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pambambam

11 years ago

Predator!!

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  11 years ago
  
  Ouch my heart!
  
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iamre321

6 years ago

I'd love to hear more, comment on my question please. I'd love to talk with you, seems like we have much in common. https://www.isitnormal.com/post/is-it-ok-to-be-attracted-to-preteen-girls--254508

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regisphilbin

9 years ago

well that was an interesting read.

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Caps90

10 years ago

The Dad post actually gave you good advice and you threw it away. Fourteen is not a prime year for attractiveness. It is the age you are now you idiot. A fourteen year old girl's body and hormones are all out of wack. Just because a 14 year old girl as new boobs and suddenly has a decent sized butt doesn't mean she is in her prime. A fourteen year old girl also has zits galore, way too much makeup on, and braces. Have fun in prison. I can tell you any sane person would a agree that majority of young women my age look way better now than in their teens. Oh and I am in my 20's and I looked horrible in all of my teen pictures.

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Hannitized_Dittohead

11 years ago

I'm sure someone has said this but I'm in a rush so I didn't read through all of the replies.

There is a pretty good chance that you're caught in a trap here. Law enforcement often utilizes agents who can pass for minors and they're not that hard to find. There's a 19 year old girl working at the store down the road from my house that I would swear was 12 if I didn't know the owner only hires 18+.

The odds are pretty high that this "14 year old" you saw on Skype is actually a 21 year old law enforcement agent and if you set up a meeting with her you will likely meet her buddies.

Even if you don't set up a meeting with her one flash of the penis on camera, combined with information obtained from your ISP (assuming you weren't dumb enough to give her your personal information) will land you in a bit of trouble. If your house/apartment looks like a typical bachelor's dwelling I suggest you do some cleaning because you will likely have visitors pretty soon.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  10 years ago
  
  Clearly you didn't read any of the replies. I made it clear in multiple posts that I am breaking no laws, hence why I am still here to type this on a 8 month old topic.
  
  Since you didn't take the time to read anything, I don't really feel the need to expand on that. If you decide to, you can get back to me if you wish.
  
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musiciswithinmysoul

11 years ago

WHATS for dinner?

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ChillyWill

11 years ago

It's normal for young girls to like older guys and vice versa. You like it because of the attention and now you find it's addicting. Like an addict you get off on the high of the ego boost it gives you. Everyone wants to feel like they're the man and wants the opposite sex to find them appealing and irresistible so i can understand the high you get from all the attention and flirtations. Also because of the maturity and experience factor you find them easy to mold like putty in your hands because they are transiting from childhood to adulthood and at that age they are trying to figure out the complexities of life. Even you stated you find them sweet, trusting and naive. To answer your questions is it normal behavior? If it was you wouldn't be asking the question looking for reassurance because when someone is doing the right thing they don't need that assurance from anyone .How wrong is it? It's wrong because you are wasting your time and energy and giving them false hope for a relationship that cannot progress like a normal relationship because of the age and maturity imbalance between the 2 parties. That is why its better for a 14 year old to pursue a relationship with another 14 year old because they are both learning by trial and error how relationships should be and its ethical and legal if they want make it a romantic or sexual one. With you its retarding their romantic and sexual development at a critical age because a relationship with you cannot progress to that point. When she becomes an adult she will find you repulsive and predatory and blame you for retarding her development at that critical age. How can I stop? By realizing that you are retarding their development you are doing more harm than the good than by being a trusting listening confident.You admit you have a problem by asking how can you stop, you like catching underage girls in your web and its more addicting than porn to you. That is a good first step in realizing the problem. Go to a trained professional would be my advice for the problem you have may be more common then you think.

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Chellyy

11 years ago

I think it's normal I mean, you kinda took it far but a lot of guys like to talk to young girls... I'm 17 I've experienced it... Hmu if you wana chat more about this :)

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  11 years ago
  
  I would but I can't no IIN gold. :(
  
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  - Chellyy
    
    11 years ago
    
    Oh I didn't know you need it to talk :( darn !
    
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duckdynastygirl

11 years ago

Who cares about what others think as long as you're happy and not forcing anything (:

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  11 years ago
  
  awe thank you.
  
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Anonymous Post Author

11 years ago

Hey guys and girls, I got a 16 yr old on my hook now is that a little better for you? She's almost legal lol.

Dang these young chicks are sexy.

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Short&2thepoint

11 years ago

Age difference is kind of relative. Quite franky, i think you're a sick fuck. Of course you find them attractive and appealing, they are. and always will be, no matter your age. For one, you are messing with their feelings, and emotions by getting their hopes up(Which has been said previously.) Whether or not you are or aren't going to actually persue a relationship with them doesnt matter. And either of these things is NOT good. It's one thing for a 40 year old and 50 year old to date with a ten year difference and completely another for 24-14 year old to. I'm 18, and I stay away from anyone under 16, yes, they may be attractive to me, and i may feel desirous toward them, but i know that it's wrong to pursue my feelings and I continue on my way. Why? Anyone that much younger than you (relatively speaking) just has not had enough experience in life to have any sort of relationship with someone THAT much older. Would a 13-year old going out with a 9-year old be normal? No. It would be totally fucked up. Good luck in prision friend, pedos are not widely respected, and whether you say it or not, sex DOES come into play somewhere, and/or eventually.

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boehawk

11 years ago

You say no one is getting hurt but what you are doing is grooming them for the next older man that comes along that likes 14yr olds but most likely for more than a hour or so of flirting . Your teaching her it's safe to flirt with adult men and if she carries this behavior over to off line when she mets men at the mall or park ( dumb to do but remember she's 14 still a child and makes childish comparisons ) she might find her self getting raped.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  11 years ago
  
  theyll me just as likely to raped by someone their own age ---fail---
  
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[Old Memory]

11 years ago

What website is this?

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  11 years ago
  
  thats classified
  
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nAt2017

11 years ago

Unfortunately normal. But definitely not good. I had a math teacher like you once...

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KeddersPrincess

11 years ago

Well, I wouldn't say that it's hurting anyone because you see 14 year old girls falling for these 20-30 year old celebrities all the time. If you're hot then you're hot. Nothing you can do about that. I wouldn't encourage them, though, as that could lead to some serious stuff, if you catch my drift.

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jucedaguy

11 years ago

what scares me more than your pathetic excuses and blaming the innocent for your behavior. is that you probably hold a job that allows you close contact with any one of our children.

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  11 years ago
  
  Actually my job is a bartender at a late night club, I cater to mostly women and men in their 20s and 30s (closer to my age.)
  
  I find most of them are self-serving sons of bitches, maybe this is why I have appreciation for the younger female.
  
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Avant-Garde

11 years ago

You make me sick!

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  11 years ago
  
  I really don't care what I "make you." If you don't have anything intelligent to add don't bother posting.
  
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  - Avant-Garde
    
    11 years ago
    
    That aside, you really need help.
    Grow up and be a "mature" adult and stop preying on minors!
    
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      11 years ago
      
      Like the level of maturity you've displayed. /sarcasm/
      
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jucedaguy

11 years ago

I have a niece 14, that i really love and care for. Come round my place oneday mate.

I'd really like to meet someone like you!

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  11 years ago
  
  Sorry dude I'm not into that gay shit if that's what you're implying.
  
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Brickinit

11 years ago

Haha its gunna be ouch your ass hole, getting raped off a hench sweaty Mexican the duration of your stay in state penitentiary, nonse.

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Afreedomnature

11 years ago

What are you going to do if someday she moves on from you, realizes that she was manipulated, and gets you in prison? Is it really that worth it?

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jucedaguy

11 years ago

I just want to say.
You do know that the child sex crimes division of the feds trawl these sites, seeking people like you out by posing as.... Hmmm how shall i put it?
14 Year old girls.

Be careful who you trap in your web you fucking rock spider sick fuck. I don't even want to entertain the thought of a twenty something man camming a fourteen year old girl.

I'm actually sickened. I hope you stop this before you go too far.

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  11 years ago
  
  That's fine with me, the feds wouldn't waste their time with someone like me who doesn't pursue minors sexually. For the umpteenth time I am not a threat to these girls physically and I don't believe I am emotionally either.
  
  There are real bad people out there, you know, murders, and child-rapists.
  
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  11 years ago
  
  I missed the camming part, oops, you have a sick mind. Maybe you are the one that needs help.
  
  We were camming so we could see and speak to eachother to make it more interpersonal. Not whatever pornographic ideas you got going on in your head.
  
  She wouldn't do anything like that and I would NEVER ask her to. That's horrible, and you should be ashamed of yourself for assuming that's what I was implying when I said I've cammed with her.
  
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Silentnight

11 years ago

No this is not normal, thats why people who are with minors are usually in jail.

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