IIN I'm waiting for when my parents pass away so I can love them?

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  • this is a weird way to think about them. you ought to just send them a holiday card or something with something positive to let them know having you was a good idea. lol

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    • By something positive on a card you mean something affectionate? Because doing that is not me.

      Pretty sure they know having me was a good idea because of how much they love me and are proud of me for not being a fucked up guy. I simply dont and cant return that sentiment while they are alive.

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      • well... i guess just because having and raising a child is a labor of love. Being affectionate per se wouldn't be required, just something to let them know you care.

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        • Fine. But if I let them know that I appreciate them and "care," and that makes them start bombarding me with love and affection for several days, I'm going to find you and strangle you with a rubber band.

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          • why do you hate affection so much? jeesh you must hate dogs and girlfriends and kids and love in general.

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            • Not at all. I love cats. I also like kids, am good with them, and could happily spend an entire day with a kid. I enjoy giving and receiving affection with girlfriends but with boundaries. Certain levels of affection freak me out.

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