There's nothing wrong with helping people but you have to use discretion when deciding who to help. Otherwise you're just going to feel used and flat instead of energised and upbeat.. Learn to say no, especially to the users. Help others but not to your detriment. Remember, not everyone has the capacity to return the favour so to speak, especially when helping a stranger etc., but you must use discretion to discriminate between the genuine and the fake cases. What goes around comes around. Ultimately once you strart practicing saying no occasionally, people will not be lining up to use you as much, if at all.
IIN I'm tired of helping friends and family?
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There's nothing wrong with helping people but you have to use discretion when deciding who to help. Otherwise you're just going to feel used and flat instead of energised and upbeat.. Learn to say no, especially to the users. Help others but not to your detriment. Remember, not everyone has the capacity to return the favour so to speak, especially when helping a stranger etc., but you must use discretion to discriminate between the genuine and the fake cases. What goes around comes around. Ultimately once you strart practicing saying no occasionally, people will not be lining up to use you as much, if at all.