I can kind of relate - I'm a man but I lost my virginity to another man at 21 and it did hurt and suck big time.
Also I was drunk and he was a random guy met at a party.
Sorry I might not be helping much. But sex is a lot less scarier now for me even though it still freaks me out from time to time. Just know that it's completely normal to feel uncomfortable. We'll get used to it eventually.
IIN I'm terrified of having sex for the first time ?
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I can kind of relate - I'm a man but I lost my virginity to another man at 21 and it did hurt and suck big time.
Also I was drunk and he was a random guy met at a party.
Sorry I might not be helping much. But sex is a lot less scarier now for me even though it still freaks me out from time to time. Just know that it's completely normal to feel uncomfortable. We'll get used to it eventually.