Is it normal i'm sexually involved with my boss?

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So to make the matter clear I'm a 17 year old female and my boss is 28 year old male. It started with a couple of playful and flirty emails which lead to meeting up after work or on weekends. It then escalated to having sex in places like his office and in the stores car park. After several times meeting up he told me he had a partner of five years AND had a child with this person and to make it worse I had vigorous sex with my boss in their bed! I feel absolutely horrible even though I was completely unaware of his personal life. Should I confront his partner?! I don't know what to do.. The repercussions of sex will now be the death of me.. Is it normal to feel this way?

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  • randomjelly
    12 years ago | pl

    In the future you might want to find out more about a person before making the "ass" so easily accessible.

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  • latoriam32
    12 years ago | pl

    She is only 17 though. I know she should have gotten more details, but she is probably very inexperienced and frankly the boss sounds like he is taking advantage of her. He is probably infatuated with her youthfulness. Teenagers often do things that aren't so smart. The 28 year old boss is clearly aware of that.

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  • RubyCane
    12 years ago | pl

    OWNED! LOL

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    start looking at the classifieds and dont look back

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  • moomus
    12 years ago | pl

    Just put the whole thing down to experience. He sounds a nasty bastard for not telling you he has a wife. It was his job to tell you, so you couldn't make an informed decision. Make sure next time you are satisfied you have the facts before you have sex. This man will get caught out, it's prob not the first time he's done it. But karma will bite his Arse at some point, just make sure you don't put yourself through it again.

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  • black_houzi
    12 years ago | pl

    ^agreed, there's that shiny thing on his fourth finger called a ring

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    • captblood44
      8 years ago | pl

      and how many partners wear a partner ring? probably not even engaged. he's not married. he has a partner and they have a chile.

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