Is it normal i'm only attracted to muscular masculine guys' bodies?

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So I'm currently battling with myself and my sexuality. It's hard because I love the Idea of having a wife, a home, kids, a dog or two, and being happy with my life. Woman are beautiful and I have fallen in love a number of times.

However, I'm not sure if I'm exactly physical attracted to woman.

I've always lusted over men. But I personally think that having these feelings is a cause of your environment. I can personally trace back the source of when these feelings first came up and feel that most people could (Except in rare genetic cases).

So then I thought maybe I'm gay. I experimented, and turns out, regular guys don't get me "going." I realized I'm only attracted to extremely physically fit masculine guys. Normal Skinny guys, or with a little bit or Flab don't turn me on at all. They gotta be muscular and toned. On top of that gay flamboyant men are the most repulsive and unattractive thing for me.
Similarly I don't think I could ever fall in love with a guy. That just doesn't click in my brain

Am I superficial? Gay? Straight? Something in between? Normal?

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  • asdf90091
    13 years ago

    This is a two-sided question, so I'll try to break it down and answer both parts.

    Am I sexually attracted to men?

    Think of the hottest woman possible being extremely horny. If you feel a tingle in your pants, you like women. Now do the same thing for men, if you got that tingle then you know you like men. This will tell you where your sexual attractions lie, but it won't really answer your sexuality. If you can't get it up to a guy then it's probably just admiration.

    Am I emotionally attracted to men?

    This could be a hard one to answer, especially if you've never had a close guy friend where the friendship line got a little blurred. You could try dating a guy if you wanted to find out I guess, but if you're deathly afraid of the possibility it'll void the test.

    Being a gay man myself, I'll give you my opinion and a little background, hopefully it helps you. I was pretty much always different, but my views were kind of like yours. I had occasional sex with men once in a great while and I did feel attracted to some, but it was nothing more than physical. I could never see myself with a guy, I wanted a wife and kids. There was a friend I had who I used to occasionally talk to but would never hang out with. He was always attractive to me, but I could never see myself with him. Anyways, we started hanging out more and I became extremely attached, to the point I loved him and could spend the rest of my life with him without ever being bothered. He's straight so that'll never happen, but without trying at all I became emotionally attached to him. I also tried the sexual attraction test and couldn't get it up to a hot woman, so that was when I realized I was gay.

    Self-labeling's a bitch so I wouldn't worry about it too much. From the outside I look as straight as any other man and I don't feel the least bit attracted to people who don't act like men. Being gay doesn't make you less of a man either, you just like penis instead of vagina. I can't read your mind, so I can't tell you what you are. Just be honest with yourself when you try to figure this out, otherwise you'll get nowhere.

    Oh and that ideal life you described doesn't really have to change just because it's a man and not a woman. You could always find a surrogate mother if you wanted genetic children and if that's not important to you then there's plenty of children out there who wouldn't mind being adopted. Everything else you talked about goes both ways (sexuality pun intended).

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  • Renzy
    6 years ago

    Hi sir I have the exact same problem oh my wow. But seriously, I once hated the fact I liked men but I sooner realised that I only like men of a muscular build and good looking face. They are rare and usually wouldn't make a move on a small ugly guy like me so I think I'm safe.
    Ive come to decide that having a family with no mother and an adopted child is wrong. Later they'll ask when they're old enough and say why didn't you marry someone?. I'm an independent person and I don't think being gay will be something I'll freely admit to someone.
    If there's someone out there with the same turn on then it's got to be normal.
    Just would've been nice to be straight and have one less thing to worry about that's all =)

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    • Renzy
      6 years ago

      Oh by the way, it started because of my surroundings and who I liked. Back in grade 2 there was a flamboyant gayish kid who I liked his sassy attitude. But he did turn out to be a gay guy. Through my primary ages I was also very happy because of my sisters and friends praising me. Soon I though I was better than them and got real cocky. I got teased by being called gay in grade 4 because I had a high pitch voice and gay looking face. Even my friends thought I was gay to the point they stopped hanging around with me and I had to make new friends. Some accepted me but my cocky attitude made me draw them away so I realised that my attitude may have been because I was praised too much. In grade 7 I started stalking guys I thought were cool and later found shirtless pics of muscular men attractive as I always had the dream of having a body like them and being liked and praised more. Even workout vids would make me feel erotic. I became addicted to masturbation throughout my highschool years and I sooner became attracted to men only. I've tried lesbians and I like the sight of breasts but its not enough to get me excited. I think it was going my primary school and high school friends that made me who I am and have become. Also my sisters who would make me overly ecstatic and engage in their feminine toys and games...
      I'm just glad it's not obvious that Im gay and only people who are close to me will maybe understand I am.
      I sometimes see good looking men and check out their arms or asses but I feel nervous or awkward when looking at females bodies. I think it's because my mum and sisters kept giving me the ideology that humping and looking at Breasts were wrong... So yeah, hope my past life could help you understand it's somewhat normal Lmao. Hope someone can relate xD

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  • purpleflower
    10 years ago

    I like really skinny men. No muscle. I like my guys to looks like emaciated skeletons lol

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