You may be lacking in social skills, which IS very normal for some people for different reasons. (been there) Soo, try some of these or all..and don't feel like they are THE ONLY FORMULAS FOR SUCCESS because as successful as they may be or seem sometimes..there are 'toxic' personalities out there who are partially responsible for making a lot of us want to drop out of society...just avoid these people like the plague if they bother you (even if you have to quit a job/class/family..whatever, not worth going crazy. ..back to the coping mechanisms I was talking about: Robin Inwald says (and this doesn't work on people in bad moods..so move on from them..and have hope) "Wear your CAPS, Compliment, Ask, Act positive, Smile...tone down a bit too if you are attracting unwanted attention..which can happen..it's meant to be an ice-breaker. Also,try some of the things in Dale Carnegie's 'How to Win Friends and Influence People'. Also, don't obsess about his formulas..obsessions make people think you are wierd..read different books, talk to different people, be influenced and in-turn influence the world. ..hope it makes you feel more in control and less lonely..alone is good when you are influencing yourself positively..or temporarily venting a scream into your pillow.... ..but lonely leads to depression/anti-social, ..well let's not go there, ok?
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You may be lacking in social skills, which IS very normal for some people for different reasons. (been there) Soo, try some of these or all..and don't feel like they are THE ONLY FORMULAS FOR SUCCESS because as successful as they may be or seem sometimes..there are 'toxic' personalities out there who are partially responsible for making a lot of us want to drop out of society...just avoid these people like the plague if they bother you (even if you have to quit a job/class/family..whatever, not worth going crazy. ..back to the coping mechanisms I was talking about: Robin Inwald says (and this doesn't work on people in bad moods..so move on from them..and have hope) "Wear your CAPS, Compliment, Ask, Act positive, Smile...tone down a bit too if you are attracting unwanted attention..which can happen..it's meant to be an ice-breaker. Also,try some of the things in Dale Carnegie's 'How to Win Friends and Influence People'. Also, don't obsess about his formulas..obsessions make people think you are wierd..read different books, talk to different people, be influenced and in-turn influence the world. ..hope it makes you feel more in control and less lonely..alone is good when you are influencing yourself positively..or temporarily venting a scream into your pillow.... ..but lonely leads to depression/anti-social, ..well let's not go there, ok?