What I'm going to tell you won't be the popular answer. Most will tell you to forget about your ex but I think you shouldn't ignore what your heart tells you. Always listen to your heart because it knows what is best for you when your mind is confused.
As for your ex's lying problem and telling you she felt she she wasn't good enough for you, you must own your part in that. It could be that you didn't do anything specific to cause her to perceive you that way but she did feel it and it was real for her. Maybe there was something more you could have done to reassure her and she would have eventually relaxed with you given the chance. Only you know if you were being supportive enough with her, though.
You can't let go and move on because you have doubts. If you felt confident in the reasons you aren't together, that they were entirely justified, then you wouldn't have to ask about it on IIN. I think deep down you know you had a chance to make it work with her but you let a friend make your decision for you and stopped listening to your heart.
Unless that bitch is just going to break his heart again, lying is the worst thing you can do in a relationship. If she really loved him then why would she let her lies destroy that?
I was being supportive enough...I woke up everynight at 3-4am to speak to her.
and i always told her i loved her everyday. And i told her that should could tell me anything and i wouldnt judge.
She's just stupidly immature. And i won't be getting back with her.
Also, its not always best to listen to your heart. Because it gets brocken. My friend did not make my decision, he told me what he thought, and it made sense, so i listened to his advice, and i listened to my head and decided it was best to break it off
IIN I'm in a relationship but im not over my ex, help!
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What I'm going to tell you won't be the popular answer. Most will tell you to forget about your ex but I think you shouldn't ignore what your heart tells you. Always listen to your heart because it knows what is best for you when your mind is confused.
As for your ex's lying problem and telling you she felt she she wasn't good enough for you, you must own your part in that. It could be that you didn't do anything specific to cause her to perceive you that way but she did feel it and it was real for her. Maybe there was something more you could have done to reassure her and she would have eventually relaxed with you given the chance. Only you know if you were being supportive enough with her, though.
You can't let go and move on because you have doubts. If you felt confident in the reasons you aren't together, that they were entirely justified, then you wouldn't have to ask about it on IIN. I think deep down you know you had a chance to make it work with her but you let a friend make your decision for you and stopped listening to your heart.
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Unless that bitch is just going to break his heart again, lying is the worst thing you can do in a relationship. If she really loved him then why would she let her lies destroy that?
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exactly
I was being supportive enough...I woke up everynight at 3-4am to speak to her.
and i always told her i loved her everyday. And i told her that should could tell me anything and i wouldnt judge.
She's just stupidly immature. And i won't be getting back with her.
Also, its not always best to listen to your heart. Because it gets brocken. My friend did not make my decision, he told me what he thought, and it made sense, so i listened to his advice, and i listened to my head and decided it was best to break it off
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Okay. You know best.