IIN I'm hurt by my so called friends inactions?

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  • Aye? How is trying to establish a friendship being needy?? Gosh how on earth do people make friends these days let alone best friends. I believe that in most best friendships , you communicate frequently as well as hang out often! That's not being needy, that's the fundamentals for any type of relationship isn't it? If I were not to try pursue a friendship with her, I doubt it wouldn't have even started.

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    • I totally agree with you OP. People are just like that these days. I think it's because we're all constantly bombarded with information bites and pretend friends on facebook that it reduces our attention span. That causes some people to treat other people like information bites as well. I despise people these days. They are real pieces of shit.

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      • Yeah people suck! I'm honestly starting to hate the world for what its become with all the fake sons of bitches! It should be illegal to feign your feelings.

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        • *giggles* feign *giggles*

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          • What's up with the giggles! You gots ants in yo pants :p

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            • OMG! You are soooo funny. NOT!!!
              "ants in yo pants"?????
              For christ's sake that's grammar school shit. Grow the fuck up. No wonder the girl RAN away. Imbecile!

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              • Get a life ! No wait there's 4 things you need to do!!

                1) Get a life
                2) Mind your own business
                3) Get a sense of humor
                4) Lastly get off this site if you have nothing nice to say or just shut your trap grumpy old man

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    • You should have called her instead of texting. Texting is informal. When setting up a date to the zoo or whatever by texting her you showed how chicken-shit you were. Women want a man that will lead, a man will balls, you displayed neither.

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      • Um I'm a girl! Why do people always think it involves a sexual relationship when someone posts a question about a girl mate...-_-

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        • You are aware there are FAR MORE heterosexuals then bi or queer.

          Because you do not state your gender an assumption takes place.

          To answer your question, because its so obvious this person doesn't want to be around you. Most guys ask questions like this understandably because of the nature of the woman.

          Women hate each other generally when... n/m child go back to lala land this never happened.

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          • It does not require me to state my gender as I'm not revolving my post around romantic intentions. If I was then it would be a different story (hence stating my gender) so you shouldn't assume. After all assumption is the mother of all fuck ups. Secondly- Not ALL girls hate each other, believe it or not but in this reality there's such a thing as girl friends and best friends (girls) as well as guys. Wake up!

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    • I didn't mean to offend you, but it did seem as if you were doing all the pursuing which is sometimes an indication that one person is more needy than the other.

      I apologise for any hurt to you, it was unintentional, just a thought

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      • Its ok - I appreciate your help :)
        I think she was probably pretending to like me which is weird because I can't seem to figure why people are like this with me. She added me first on Facebook and seemed to care when I was about to go to court at some point..:/

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        • Maybe it's her, not you! I wouldn't be assuming she was necessarily pretending, perhaps she's just moved on and isn't mature enough to be clear with you. This sort of thing happens to all of us off and on

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          • Yeah perhaps you're right but its weird to use the term "move on" when this is still the beginning. You really only use that term when its been a long term type of relationship if you know what I mean. We were still in the stage of getting to know one another.

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    • Will just go with someone else
      To easy

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