I'm actually thinking to tell her, let her know how I feel and explain some things. I'd rather be rejected than regret it all my life. I should tell her as soon as possible, too. So then I have chance to make it up if it gets awkward.. I'll ask. Thank you so much for your advice. I'll let you know how it goes (:
Hi, it's been about a week since i promised that i will tell her. I am here to tell you that I just did. in person. yes, very awkward. but i wasn't telling her that to see if anything happens, i told her to get it out of my mind; i think i'm kinda relieved haha.. well she didn't really have anything to say, and i let her go to her room as she was about to go to sleep when i told her this. I couldn't really tell her everything I was thinking. maybe that's good, maybe that's bad. thank you for letting me realize things thou. i looked at myself over the week and noticed a lot of things of me and her. it was obvious that she didn't like me. i was below her friend level. probably just an annoying guy who happens to be living in her dorm. As i told her this, i think i'm free from it now. we probably will be just "friends" like we are now.... or maybe just be awkward everytime we see each other.
the point is that i did something i haven't done before and i feel good. i'm not worried about what will happen between her. I saw her reactions when I told her; i ccould tell she didn't have anything to say, she was shocked. she told me i'm an "awesome friend" while i feel like she's not even my friend....... which i knew was gonna happen. well, i'm only a freshmen experienceing what is going on.
ugh i can't organize anything! i'm still frozen from the moment i told her. sorry if this whole thing doesn't mean anything. I... was convincing myself everything is okay... thank you very much for your advice.
Good to hear you feel better. It is always a little awkward for a bit, but it goes away. At least you're not worrying anymore :-D Good luck and enjoy school.
Is it normal i'm going through all this mental stuff?
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I'm actually thinking to tell her, let her know how I feel and explain some things. I'd rather be rejected than regret it all my life. I should tell her as soon as possible, too. So then I have chance to make it up if it gets awkward.. I'll ask. Thank you so much for your advice. I'll let you know how it goes (:
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Hi, it's been about a week since i promised that i will tell her. I am here to tell you that I just did. in person. yes, very awkward. but i wasn't telling her that to see if anything happens, i told her to get it out of my mind; i think i'm kinda relieved haha.. well she didn't really have anything to say, and i let her go to her room as she was about to go to sleep when i told her this. I couldn't really tell her everything I was thinking. maybe that's good, maybe that's bad. thank you for letting me realize things thou. i looked at myself over the week and noticed a lot of things of me and her. it was obvious that she didn't like me. i was below her friend level. probably just an annoying guy who happens to be living in her dorm. As i told her this, i think i'm free from it now. we probably will be just "friends" like we are now.... or maybe just be awkward everytime we see each other.
the point is that i did something i haven't done before and i feel good. i'm not worried about what will happen between her. I saw her reactions when I told her; i ccould tell she didn't have anything to say, she was shocked. she told me i'm an "awesome friend" while i feel like she's not even my friend....... which i knew was gonna happen. well, i'm only a freshmen experienceing what is going on.
ugh i can't organize anything! i'm still frozen from the moment i told her. sorry if this whole thing doesn't mean anything. I... was convincing myself everything is okay... thank you very much for your advice.
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Good to hear you feel better. It is always a little awkward for a bit, but it goes away. At least you're not worrying anymore :-D Good luck and enjoy school.