thank you so much for your help. I really appreciate it. confidence has been my problem since I was a little kid. I hear a lot that I think too much. that might be something that causes my confidence problem; I'd be really harsh to myself. but I love how I've fixed many things by thinking over them and I'm not sure if there's ever thinking "too much". so I'm gonna think little more about this before I talk to her about this. I want to make sure things will go right way when I tell her. I have a great feeling that she likes my friend very much and I don't think it's a good idea to just tell her my feelings when she likes someone else. one day, I will be straight forward just tell her.
my question is, before the summer break? or after? I won't be in US over the break...
I wouldn't put a time limit on it. Do it whenever you are most comfortable. Though if you ask sooner, you both might have the summer to think it over/bond/grow, whatever way it swings. You could also talk to your friend, say "hey, I think she likes you, do you like her?" bc if he says no, then it wont hurt to tell her your feelings.
Is it normal i'm going through all this mental stuff?
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thank you so much for your help. I really appreciate it. confidence has been my problem since I was a little kid. I hear a lot that I think too much. that might be something that causes my confidence problem; I'd be really harsh to myself. but I love how I've fixed many things by thinking over them and I'm not sure if there's ever thinking "too much". so I'm gonna think little more about this before I talk to her about this. I want to make sure things will go right way when I tell her. I have a great feeling that she likes my friend very much and I don't think it's a good idea to just tell her my feelings when she likes someone else. one day, I will be straight forward just tell her.
my question is, before the summer break? or after? I won't be in US over the break...
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I wouldn't put a time limit on it. Do it whenever you are most comfortable. Though if you ask sooner, you both might have the summer to think it over/bond/grow, whatever way it swings. You could also talk to your friend, say "hey, I think she likes you, do you like her?" bc if he says no, then it wont hurt to tell her your feelings.