I'm actually the same way; just because you are gay doesn't mean you have to abide by the "gay stereotype" rules; everyone has their own comfort level... Never let anyone force you to do anything you aren't comfortable with
I'm the same way. Just like there are different things straight people like, the same goes for us. We do not all have to like or are required to have a dick shoved in our ass. Anyways I digress. Do what you like and makes you happy.
I'm only Bi, and don't want to do it to another guy. But I'd love to have him do me. I can't think of anything hotter than to spread my legs for another guy and look at him square in the face while he's pounding away, just as my girlfriend and I used to do.