No offense, sounds like he's got your relationship in the palm of his hand & it doesn't sound like a healthy relationship. I feel I can comment on this & honestly tell you that if you don't chill out, stand up for yourself & either fix your relationship & set boundries OR end it quickly before you drive yourself insane... you are only hurting yourself & trying to make something work that wasn't meant to be & you'll end up being pissed in the future for wasting so much time.
My boyfriend & I have gone through the same arguement about the whole not texting me back thing & at first I was PISSED he wasn't responding. But, he works from 6am till sometimes 10pm at night (construction & they work all over the state) & he's a foreman so it probably isn't professional for him to be on his phone the whole time, especially since he has to set an example for the people in his crew.
Also, put yourself in his shoes! Would you honestly want your boyfriend texting you ever two seconds of every day? Maybe if the texts were nice & sweet & didn't consist of "why aren't you texting me back" or stuff like that. Idk. Do what you want but I know I wonder why I was such a bitch to him sometimes over a stupid text. Go over the texts you send to him & it might make you think about how you are coming off to him. Wow sorry this is so long.
Is it normal I'm easily jealous over this?
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No offense, sounds like he's got your relationship in the palm of his hand & it doesn't sound like a healthy relationship. I feel I can comment on this & honestly tell you that if you don't chill out, stand up for yourself & either fix your relationship & set boundries OR end it quickly before you drive yourself insane... you are only hurting yourself & trying to make something work that wasn't meant to be & you'll end up being pissed in the future for wasting so much time.
My boyfriend & I have gone through the same arguement about the whole not texting me back thing & at first I was PISSED he wasn't responding. But, he works from 6am till sometimes 10pm at night (construction & they work all over the state) & he's a foreman so it probably isn't professional for him to be on his phone the whole time, especially since he has to set an example for the people in his crew.
Also, put yourself in his shoes! Would you honestly want your boyfriend texting you ever two seconds of every day? Maybe if the texts were nice & sweet & didn't consist of "why aren't you texting me back" or stuff like that. Idk. Do what you want but I know I wonder why I was such a bitch to him sometimes over a stupid text. Go over the texts you send to him & it might make you think about how you are coming off to him. Wow sorry this is so long.