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I go to the gym three times per week (I'm 20) and my gym coach just seems very attractive (he's 44) but there are no physical things I like about him, I can't explain why I'm attracted because he's married, has children, is my height and I can't stop glancing at him and having wet dreams about him.
It happens..I was a softball coach, first with younger girls, then, 18-20 age range. Had a few players who paid a bit much attention to me, including 2, who were best friends, who knew my off the field life..Where I went, women I dated, bars I went to.
Was taking a late-night walk one night, oddly enough, around the baseball field complex, when one popped out from the dugout (which was near the road). She walked with me for maybe 10 minutes, and stopped to sit on a tree stump. I figured, she's done, no harm, go on my way alone as usual. Nope. She stood up, as if to say goodbye and leave, however..Planted a full, deep kiss to my lips, making me forget, just for a second, that she was my player, not date or gf. I admit, her lips were soft, pink, and very enjoyable.
We separated, and my brain kicked in. Holy crap, I thought..She's one of my players! I could be in deep shit for this. Was able to explain to her that "this" can't happen, and I made a mistake by not pushing her away. Thankfully for me, she apologized for the act, saying she was attracted to me and "I thought we had a thing going". If anyone felt bad afterwards, it was her, as she apologized many more times.
We never really spoke of it again, until a pizza party I threw for them at a local restaurant. She caught me on the way back from the men's room and asked if I was going to coach again next year (I hadn't decided yet..liked it, but very time-consuming). Told her not sure, and, boom..She laid another one on me. This one had no apologies. All I said was "nice" and walked away.