I broke up with my ex because I wasn't attracted to him anymore. No reason really, I just wasn't. He was very hurt of course but it only took a month then he wanted to remain friends and we did. He had some issues, was on meds that he wasn't good at taking etc. but he never did anything hurtful to me so if your bf has absolutely no issues then it's even less likely that he will hurt you just saying. And you can't go around staying in relationships that don't make you happy for this reason. Don't think about that even because we do tend to attract what we think a lot about especially if we fear it. It sounds mostly like you don't trust him. I wouldn't exactly go around worrying that someone is gonna hurt me if I trusted and cared about them.
You might also want to talk to someone about the possibility of suffering from an anxiety disorder. That includes paranoia.
IIN I'm Afraid to Break up with my Boyfriend?
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I broke up with my ex because I wasn't attracted to him anymore. No reason really, I just wasn't. He was very hurt of course but it only took a month then he wanted to remain friends and we did. He had some issues, was on meds that he wasn't good at taking etc. but he never did anything hurtful to me so if your bf has absolutely no issues then it's even less likely that he will hurt you just saying. And you can't go around staying in relationships that don't make you happy for this reason. Don't think about that even because we do tend to attract what we think a lot about especially if we fear it. It sounds mostly like you don't trust him. I wouldn't exactly go around worrying that someone is gonna hurt me if I trusted and cared about them.
You might also want to talk to someone about the possibility of suffering from an anxiety disorder. That includes paranoia.