Is it normal i'm a straight girl, but sometimes think about women?

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Ok, so I'm pretty positive I'm a straight girl. I've only dreamed about having relationships with other men, never about women. But, sometimes I think I might be bi-sexual, or bi-curious. I do watch porn once in a while, and when I do I prefer to watch girl on girl, and if I do t I usually focus on the girl. I have a weird fantasy too; I've always wanted to be eaten out by another girl, but I could never think of actually having a relationship with one. But sometimes I see girls who are obviously lesbian/bi sexual, and some of them I think "oh, she's pretty hot" etc. I've actually known a few girls like this that I would consider dating, but I would feel very ashamed. Is this normal?

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  • imacomputer
    12 years ago | pl

    it's normal to have those urges AND it's normal to sometimes be ashamed of those urges. Homosexuallity is still a long way from being completly accepted.

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  • Pagan4Pride
    11 years ago | pl

    I think everyone has had some kind of fantasy of the same sex. I've asked my gay/lesbian friends and they say they've had thoughts of opposite sex too. I think we're too hung up on labels in society, being gay, straight, bi, trans, etc. But humans are sexual creatures. Men and women have sex appeal, and it's normal for people to appreciate and be attracted to it, regardless of their sex or gender.

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  • Enlighten-Me
    10 years ago | pl

    I straight but I have a boob fetish. I get turned on by women's nipples being played with, pinched, sucked on, poked,etc.

    You could just be bi-curious. You really never know until you experiment. There's nothing to be ashamed about in trying to figure out your sexuality.

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  • LeSigh
    11 years ago | pl

    Yes! I was looking for solidarity, and so glad I found a little. :)

    Okay, I feel the same way, but even though I know that urges toward the same sex is perfectly okay, I do sometimes feel a little ashamed of myself for it. I'm a woman who is with an incredible man - he's all of the things I never thought I'd find - but still...there's something about other women that drives me nuts. I've been with another girl once, enjoyed it a lot, but I know I'm not really capable of a full on relationship with anyone but a guy. But that doesn't stop me from really wanting other girls sometimes. Sometimes I think girls are just naturally a little more capable of bi-curiosity than guys - maybe it's a part of all of us.

    I would say that if you're able (i.e., not in a committed relationship) do some experimenting. Don't be afraid of what you might find out about yourself.

    /hugs

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