Is it normal i'm a guy and i'm submissive?

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I don't mean sexually submissive, like socially and emotionally submissive. I get overwhelmed pretty easy and just shut down. I don't think I have a mental illness or anything it's just my personality. I have a large friend circle and belong to groups, but if someone confronts or challenges me I can't stand up for myself.

I have a friend who is going through some assholeish "alpha" phase and it's really making me self aware of how much of a bitch I am. I do a lot of grabbing my clothes and crossing my arms when I get nervous and started roiding because my body wasn't packing on any weight. I work out and eat right, but puberty did me shit and I can't grow a beard to save my life. I'm 23 and still look like I'm 16

I'm thinking of taking testosterone boosters because my dad says I might be so submissive and skittish because I have a lot of estrogen or whatever. I don't know, I hate it, I'm a bitch and people can tell.

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  • satanniggasandpopsicle
    7 years ago

    You should like the fact that you look young

    If hes an asshole then hes an asshole

    You dont have to be an asshole

    Its nice to have balls yes, but you dont need them

    If your friendly and nice then your good :)

    We're not in the tribal apes war anymore or some shit lol

    This isnt the 19th century where people are killing each other with sticks over a piece of land haha

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  • CreamPuffs
    7 years ago

    Don't take testosterone boosters or continue the steroids. It's normal to be a bit submissive, and I fully understand that you want to be less so because of your man-ness. HOWEVER using the above-mentioned solutions is a good way to fuck up your body. Using steroids and hormones is seriously unhealthy and they have a lot of side effects. (especially the steroids.) Just learn to stand up for yourself and it'll matter less that you're submissive.

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    • TexasToast09
      7 years ago

      I agree with not taking testosterone boosters and stopping steroids. Unless there is a medical reason for either of them, it's much better to avoid them entirely.

      If you want to change, it's going to be from the choices you make, not from putting chemicals in your body. That being said, you should try to be comfortable with who you are now, while you work towards who you want to become.

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  • darausnicht
    6 years ago

    I am a switch hitter that looked passably female up until I was 24/25 or so. I was really goth/punked out and my persona is rather dominant. I think part of my appeal was the way I looked like the hot "goth barbie" bitch who "is too good for hot topic" and "only dates college guys" etc.

    But I also started getting shit for the bisexual behavior when I was 8 or 9 from my peers so I had to take krav maga from a friend of my aunt's who was in the IDF and I have been into that at all. I was more violent and aggressive when I had that growth spurt where I had narrow shoulders and with fake breasts was shaped similar to Britney Spears.

    What else are you consuming?? Soy??

    I didn't grow any facial hair until I was 28 and I had a period where I went from gothed out to gothed out and MALE and that was a mindfuck. I had 2 girlfriends who were bi and together a couple times in that period.

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  • ojimpu
    6 years ago

    Honestly, I'm into guys like these. They show their true colors and hide nothing. But it just sounds like you may have low self-confidence.

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  • MangoTango
    7 years ago

    Actually, keeping your cool and staying neutral, not escalating anything is SMART.

    Do you want to stoop to the tree-pissing physical fist-fight level of the idiots around you? Please don't.

    If anything, let them do the fighting, stand back, they'll get all messy, and you can walk away, no harm done. Get my point? Ah,the advantage of not getting your hands dirty is wise.

    Anyways, be glad you're not turning into a hairy testosterone-infested roid-raged heathen. They die earlier. They also age faster. Why on earth would you want that? No.

    By the way, leave the excess testosterone OUT of your system. It will just kill off your brain cells, making you stupid. Seriously, too much testosterone reduces cognition in the frontal lobe of the brain which you need to do complex thought.

    Lack of testosterone doesn't make someone submissive. There are assertive, aggressive, bossy females too.

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  • peterrabbyt69
    7 years ago

    Don't worry about growing a beard. I bet you like to suck dick though, don't you?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      No. But I see why you'd think that.

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  • bubsy
    7 years ago

    Quit 'roiding', and forget the testosterone boosters. Your dad is right: you are hormonally a bitch. You need to get some bloodwork done. My guess is that you'll want to get on a lose dose of clomid for life. Sure beats TRT.

    And my advice wouldn't be complete without recommending 'No More Mr. Nice Guy'. You have a lot of mental work to get done.

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