I think it's weird. Yourself intentions were genuine but no one knows this and that definitely wouldn't have let you pay for food. It's just more of a stranger danger thing and the 12 year might now be more susceptible to greeting strangers.
No, no it really doesn't. Sure, there's a lot of sexist stereotypes when it comes to strangers (men are creepy, women are less so) but, no matter what, it never looks normal.
Your intentions were, probably, genuine and, if I was the parent and I knew you were just being kind, I'd have said thank you but, to begin with, I'd have been to skeptical to allow you to pay for food.
It's just weird and something I wouldn't do.
Is it normal I'm a 21 year old, friends with a 12 year old girl?
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I think it's weird. Yourself intentions were genuine but no one knows this and that definitely wouldn't have let you pay for food. It's just more of a stranger danger thing and the 12 year might now be more susceptible to greeting strangers.
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Then ill be more careful next time? I was only trying to be nice.
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Yeah, I know. But how do you think it looks when a random stranger says they'll pay for your daughter's food.
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It looks like a giving person who's willing to be nice.
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No, no it really doesn't. Sure, there's a lot of sexist stereotypes when it comes to strangers (men are creepy, women are less so) but, no matter what, it never looks normal.
Your intentions were, probably, genuine and, if I was the parent and I knew you were just being kind, I'd have said thank you but, to begin with, I'd have been to skeptical to allow you to pay for food.
It's just weird and something I wouldn't do.