Is it normal I'm a 21 year old, friends with a 12 year old girl?

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  • Zonfire80
    5 years ago | pl

    You see this was the stuff I was afraid was going to happen. What's wrong with being friends with someone? Her mom is fine with it. I see her as a little sister than anything. If her mom wouldn't agree with us being friends than I would of just mine my own business. Plus I'm pretty sure this was an only one time friend ship. This was at a public place. Even if we weren't friends, would it be wrong to buy food for her? Plus I'm probably never going to see her again.

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    • e51pegasi
      5 years ago | pl

      If you are only ever going to meet them once it's not a friendship. It's an act of kindness.

      Why does everything with you have the caveat or label of transman & your interpretation of people's perceptions of you. Seriously stop thinking & start living.

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      • Zonfire80
        5 years ago | pl

        Ok it's an act of kindness but I don't understand why age and gender matter when it comes to friendship? Like a 21 year cis/transman can't be friends with a 12 year old girl? What if she's 16 would it still be bad?

        What if the rolls were switch. A 21 year old woman being friends with a 12 year old boy or girl?

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        • e51pegasi
          5 years ago | pl

          No a 21 year old random cis man or even a woman befriending a prepubescent boy or girl sadly rings fucking massive alarm bells. Even at 16 it doesn't look great.

          Nothing to do with anything other than the rampant paranoia that runs through parents' minds propogated & fed by the media that everybody is a kidnapper & every man is some depraved sexual deviant.

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          • Zonfire80
            5 years ago | pl

            A woman wouldn't get that much stares though than men. We live in a society that thinks men are some evil creature that wants to devower women and children.

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          • Zonfire80
            5 years ago | pl

            Friend ship shouldn't have an age limit only dating. It's really sad that people can't seem to understand that. I'm friends with lots of people from different age groups.

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      • Zonfire80
        5 years ago | pl

        So that people know I'm transgender. People don't always read my bio. That's why I put it out there. In real life I'm stealth.

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    • TheHolyButter
      5 years ago | pl

      You're never going to meet her again? And yet you chose to discuss this matter so very seriously, and involving so many opinions? Wow.

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