Yes, it is sexual harassment. If you're trying to claim I am a feminist of any sort, then you must not of been on this site very long.
Nobody is saying women can't be sexual, I am saying just because you are female means everybody wants to see your sexual aspects when they did not ask to.
It's not sexual harassment by legal definition (I'm not doing it under circumstances where sexual harassment laws would apply) and it's not even harassment by ANY definition.
harass[ huh-ras, har-uhs ]verb (used with object)
1. to disturb persistently; torment, as with troubles or cares; bother continually; pester; persecute.
2. to trouble by repeated attacks, incursions, etc., as in war or hostilities; harry; raid.
"Harassment" requires aggresive persistent unwelcome behavior towards another.
You are being overly dramatic claiming this is sexual harassment and it's just feeding into this "rape culture" feminist mentality. As if it's so awful to be human! Women showing tits are allowing men to "rape" them!! Oh my!! Men showing some skin are "rapists"!! What utter nonsense. Stop feeding the beast. I doubt you are being honest when you said being flashed made you sooooooooo uncomfortable. It probably wasn't discomfort in a sexually violated way, was it? Maybe it was just that you were not attracted to the guy but no harm was done, right? No need to make him out to be some kind of sexual predator rapist weirdo over it! Relaaaax!
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harassment (typically of a woman) in a workplace, or other professional or social situation, involving the making of unwanted sexual advances or obscene remarks.
Harassment does not need to have "aggresive" nature to it.
It is sexual harassment, you are showing your breasts to people that may not want to have your sexual parts thrown in their face. Would you like it if a guy walked up and done it to you with their penis? Do you think such behaviors are approprotate around children? If no, then why not if there's nothing wrong with it?
Also, as I stated, one of them done it on multiple times to me.
I do not support the rape culture theory, but that doesn't mean I do not oppose sexual harassment.
You "doubt" it made me uncomfortable? Well, it did, your doubts are merely that and do not speak for how I felt in those situations. "Maybe you were just not attracted to the guy"...It wasn't a guy, they were female.
When they showed me their breasts I was not interested, I did not want to see them. The sexual context in which I did not willingly take part in or wanted to did make me feel uncomfortable.
No, I wasn't attracted to the women. I am not making them out so seem like rapists, sexual harassment is a far, far way away from the being a rapist.
Don't make the assumption that anything of sexual nature and discomfort with sexual nature in some forms is somehow related to feminism, they don't own the issue.
Your a whiny little bitch. Shut up. I'm sure any guy would love for a pretty woman to come give them a cookie and a view. It's not harassment if the guy likes it
" Although the law doesn’t prohibit simple teasing, offhand comments, or isolated incidents that are not very serious, harassment is illegal when it is so frequent or severe that it creates a hostile or offensive work environment or when it results in an adverse employment decision (such as the victim being fired or demoted)."
IT IS NOT SEXUAL HARASSMENT. IT IS NOT HARASSMENT EITHER. Legally, at most it could be called "public lewdness" or indecent exposure, it is NOT anything like sexual harassment.
You ARE acknowledging and agreeing with rape culture if you are actually soooo offended by a minor incident. Sooooo violated, eh? lol! Raaaaape!!! I been raaaaaaped!! omg guyz!!
You can't just assume that all men are perverted beasts. If a woman flashed me and gave me a cookie, I'd get a little uncomfortable. I certainly wouldn't eat the cookie.
You never know what might be traumatic to some people. What if someone had suffered sexual abuse as a child and you trigger a flashback? What are you trying to prove about yourself, anyway?
I realize that there's a possibility that this is a troll thread, but I'm saying this in case you are actually serious.
Is it normal I LOVE to flash men and bake them cookies?
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It's not sexual harassment. Take your femnazi "women can't be sexual" attitude outta here! Raaaaaape!!
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Yes, it is sexual harassment. If you're trying to claim I am a feminist of any sort, then you must not of been on this site very long.
Nobody is saying women can't be sexual, I am saying just because you are female means everybody wants to see your sexual aspects when they did not ask to.
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It's not sexual harassment by legal definition (I'm not doing it under circumstances where sexual harassment laws would apply) and it's not even harassment by ANY definition.
harass[ huh-ras, har-uhs ]verb (used with object)
1. to disturb persistently; torment, as with troubles or cares; bother continually; pester; persecute.
2. to trouble by repeated attacks, incursions, etc., as in war or hostilities; harry; raid.
"Harassment" requires aggresive persistent unwelcome behavior towards another.
You are being overly dramatic claiming this is sexual harassment and it's just feeding into this "rape culture" feminist mentality. As if it's so awful to be human! Women showing tits are allowing men to "rape" them!! Oh my!! Men showing some skin are "rapists"!! What utter nonsense. Stop feeding the beast. I doubt you are being honest when you said being flashed made you sooooooooo uncomfortable. It probably wasn't discomfort in a sexually violated way, was it? Maybe it was just that you were not attracted to the guy but no harm was done, right? No need to make him out to be some kind of sexual predator rapist weirdo over it! Relaaaax!
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harassment (typically of a woman) in a workplace, or other professional or social situation, involving the making of unwanted sexual advances or obscene remarks.
Harassment does not need to have "aggresive" nature to it.
It is sexual harassment, you are showing your breasts to people that may not want to have your sexual parts thrown in their face. Would you like it if a guy walked up and done it to you with their penis? Do you think such behaviors are approprotate around children? If no, then why not if there's nothing wrong with it?
Also, as I stated, one of them done it on multiple times to me.
I do not support the rape culture theory, but that doesn't mean I do not oppose sexual harassment.
You "doubt" it made me uncomfortable? Well, it did, your doubts are merely that and do not speak for how I felt in those situations. "Maybe you were just not attracted to the guy"...It wasn't a guy, they were female.
When they showed me their breasts I was not interested, I did not want to see them. The sexual context in which I did not willingly take part in or wanted to did make me feel uncomfortable.
No, I wasn't attracted to the women. I am not making them out so seem like rapists, sexual harassment is a far, far way away from the being a rapist.
Don't make the assumption that anything of sexual nature and discomfort with sexual nature in some forms is somehow related to feminism, they don't own the issue.
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Your a whiny little bitch. Shut up. I'm sure any guy would love for a pretty woman to come give them a cookie and a view. It's not harassment if the guy likes it
http://www.eeoc.gov/laws/types/sexual_harassment.cfm
" Although the law doesn’t prohibit simple teasing, offhand comments, or isolated incidents that are not very serious, harassment is illegal when it is so frequent or severe that it creates a hostile or offensive work environment or when it results in an adverse employment decision (such as the victim being fired or demoted)."
IT IS NOT SEXUAL HARASSMENT. IT IS NOT HARASSMENT EITHER. Legally, at most it could be called "public lewdness" or indecent exposure, it is NOT anything like sexual harassment.
You ARE acknowledging and agreeing with rape culture if you are actually soooo offended by a minor incident. Sooooo violated, eh? lol! Raaaaape!!! I been raaaaaaped!! omg guyz!!
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Also, look up aggressive and you may be better understanding of its use in this context. Hint: persistent, actively purposely continuing the behavior
Harassment, by definition, requires continued bothersome acts.
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You can't just assume that all men are perverted beasts. If a woman flashed me and gave me a cookie, I'd get a little uncomfortable. I certainly wouldn't eat the cookie.
You never know what might be traumatic to some people. What if someone had suffered sexual abuse as a child and you trigger a flashback? What are you trying to prove about yourself, anyway?
I realize that there's a possibility that this is a troll thread, but I'm saying this in case you are actually serious.