Is it normal i love my boyfriend very much but...

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I've been with my boyfriend for a while now, i love him very much and we have amazing chemistry together we tell eachother everything. We were both involved in bad relationships in the past. He has gotten his heart broken and so have I. We both have trust issues that we are working on. His ex recently found put that we are dating and she hasent stopped bothering us. She will call him once every two weeks just to bother us and yhe funny part is that she has a boyfriend. My boyfriend always tells me when she calls and yes it upsets me. I know he wants me and loves me but I'm worried that he might go back because somehow, I find, that we always have that weakness for our first love even if they weren't the greatest. I'm not the type that's going to fight because that's just me giving her what she wants but I don't know what I can do to make her stop. My boyfriend has told her multiple times to stop calling and still she hasent gotten the message yet. Is it normal that I'm scared to lose my boyfriend? Since i also have experienced a bad past were I was cheated on. He was cheated on as well. He tells me she means nothing to him anymore. But deep down I'm scared. Is it normal? :S

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  • Faceless
    12 years ago | pl

    "FAST ACTIN TINACTIN. BOOM!"
    -John Madden.

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  • TyLee
    12 years ago | pl

    It's normal for you to feel like this but doesn't he have caller Id? He doesn't have to answer.... If not he can just hang up.... He shouldn't be speaking to her at all.

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  • Nokiot9
    8 years ago | pl

    Normal. Unless they're actually hanging out together, alone, then I wouldn't worry too much. I try to be as civil with my exs as I can. And sometimes that involves speaking to em on the phone, and sometimes yes, it makes my gf uncomfortable. Hell, it bugs me when she talks to her exs. It's 100% natural, especially when you are nursing scars from being deceived and thrown away.

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  • 343Boy
    12 years ago | pl

    You should record her calls and send them to her boyfriend.

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  • Tisgranum
    12 years ago | pl

    Give that bitch a good beating. Makes a good story to tell you children anyway. lol

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  • KodaaLynn
    12 years ago | pl

    I had the same problem except my boyfriend was essentially best friends with his ex. Neither of them tried to get back with each other but I knew how much he loved her and how much she hurt him and I was just nervous about the whole situation. And even though our relationship didn't last I still have jealous tendencies toward the two of them together. No, it wasn't the cause of our break up, but still.

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  • forevercg
    12 years ago | pl

    sooo normal... i say give her new boyfriend a call

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  • smojoe92
    12 years ago | pl

    Like everybody else, just tell to not answer if shes just calling to cause problems.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago | pl

    I agree with TyLee. He needs to get a backbone and tell her he's too busy to chat when she calls. In fact, he should just ask her straight out, "What do you want?"

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